Wrong decision you chosen???how it affects you??

hi blackloud. i believe that mistakes have purpose. having mistakes will help us realize the we need more efforts or we need to correct it when next time arrives. it's true that wrong decisions affect us badly. but we should not take it seriously because there are reasons behind it. GOD wants us to grow and learn with that. i also believe that mistakes will strengthen us so that in the next challenge we will have we will be able to conquer. GOD bless us.

Life's mistakes are our mistakes. No one else is responsible for them. They are ours. It is true that we all make mistakes. But whether we allow them to remain as mistakes largely depends on us. If we accept them and learn from it, they become "Life's Lessons". When we look back at our past, we should be able to look at our mistakes as lessons from our past experiences and not as our past mistakes. Our mistakes remain such if we refuse to learn from them. Sometimes we keep repeating mistakes because of a behavior or habit that we learnt. So if we have a habit of saying "Yes" even when we should be saying "No", we need to learn to stop this. In such a situation we may have to understand why we say "Yes". And attempt to change our behavior slowly but steadily.

well. maybe that is a process of learning. we never know what is good if we never did a mistake. even we hate it but mistake can make us to be a better person

I had this friend. She was really special to me, we were best friends actually. Well I had built up strong feelings for this girl over time and she had the same for me. So one day I got the courage to ask her out. She said yes and I was ecstatic. We were going out for a few months and then problems started occurring we started fighting etc.. well we ended up breaking up and now I am not good friends with her anymore. If I could take back the decision of me asking her out we would still be friends so that's what I wish I had never done.