As an adult, were you involved in a petty quarrels of children?
By vangie26
@vangie26 (445)
Philippines
October 27, 2010 7:44pm CST
I was just thinking what is on the mind of adults involving themselves in a petty quarrels of children? Admit it or not, many parents are fighting because of a small fights involving ther kids. Worst is, other parents are confronting the opponent kid at the back of the other's parent? Is this fair? Is it reasonable for an adult to fight for their kids and involve themselves, if in the first place, you know that this is just one of the fights and later on, they're friends again??
3 responses
@chayapathys (2111)
• India
29 Oct 10
I too do not like the parents involving themselves when kids fight.Without knowing the real cause they interfere and support their children and it is very bad.Children fight now and within 10 minutes they become friends again.When the parents involve it becomes it becomes adult's fight and it never ends so easily as in the case of children....
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Oct 10
hi vangie for one thing the less we get involved in those
petty fights and let the kids work it out the better.
A small tempest in a teapot and soon the kids are
friends again.but let parents get into it and then parents of
one kid will square off with the parents of another'
and we have a minor war.,
@picjim (3002)
• India
28 Oct 10
I feel we ought not to involve in these small quarrels between children.They will make in a few hours and it is the adult who gets the bad image.Unless there is danger for your child i'd say lets keep off such small fights.Parents can intrevene and tell both kids not to fight and make them see reason and not fight in the absence of parents of one of the kids.