My father is spying on me through refog keylogger

Yeah, he tells me things and i should obey his rules. He is not only spying on me but on my mom too. He likes to read her emails. I don't want my father to know what I am typing because he always misunderstand things. He wants to bust me.

It really is creepy. Every 5 minutes it captures images displayed on the screen. He told me that as long as I live under his roof, I do and MUST obey what he'll say. There is nothing I can do but to wait for that laptop to rot. LOL

Our PC also has a keylogger. I use my brother's because you can't install the program. The security is too tight. I can't stand up to my father. That's scary!

oh, dude ! This is terrible. I think you just need to stand up to your dad =/ I have my own pc and so do my brother and dad. We'll NEVER use one another's PC/Laptop. NEVER !

I didn't tell my mom about it. I don't want them to fight again. I know my mom isn't doing anything that will ruin their marriage. So I didn't tell her. That's right, I'm 20.

We all think that way one way or the other. While you're being monitored through your computer, my mom basically goes through my stuff every single day, sometimes every other day. She does it at random times during the day, and does it when she's at home. She looks through my drawers, through my book case, she reads my journal and when she finds something she doesn't like she gets angry for me about it. If she sees I have too many sketches lying around, she gets mad at me for not focusing on school work. If she so much as sees that I'm writing about a boy, she tells me i'm not allowed to have a boyfriend and that it's not necessary and all sort of bad things will happen to me. She was so paranoid, that when I got my period when I was in gradeschool, she told me I shouldn't sit next to boys because I can get pregnant! I mean, come on! One day, I left a notebook lying around with nasty stuff written on it like on the first page it says "keep out, private". Then on the second page it says, "don't you understand what private means? it means that you shouldn't look into it if it's not yours...". And the rest of the pages keep getting nastier. I know my mom backed off a little after that. I knew she was hurt. But I realized that I do want them to know about my private life because my other friends can freely tell their parents that they have a crush in school, or that they like drawing as much as school and they want to take art classes. They can say that a guy in school keeps looking at them, and they think that guy is crushing on them. I wanted something like that. So I let them find out that I have crushes, that a guy was crushing on me. My mom kept reprimanding me, but I somehow showed her that not all guys are crazy or want to get into your pants. (And even if they did, that I knew what my limit was). She wasn't all happy about it, and eventually I got used to her. And guess what? She got used to me too. YOu've gotta start somewhere with this. Better if you start earlier in life so that if you actually meet the girl you like so much and she likes you back, or do something you like so much that doesn't please them, you don't go ruining her image by trying to sneak out with her, or you don't give them the bad impression by trying to hide it behind their backs.

I was thinking about that but I'm scared of the outcome. He doesn't want to get to know me, he wants to bust me. He doesn't understand things in my generation talks about. 2 years ago, he installed a different keylogger. I didn't know it existed. Peteranswer.com was popular at that so I tried it and asked peter about my crushes and other things that an 18 year old would like to know. He really got angry with me. He said that if I want to get married, I'll leave the house. :(

Yeah I am an adult but I'm treated like a kid. It is unfortunate that my dad is computer savvy. He is 58, I think. He knows how to repair the computer and reformat it. So sad..

But I need to have privacy. It's uncomfortable that someone is spying on you and it is illegal right? It doesn't present that he loves me. It maybe his house and his money now, but wait until I can have my own. If he keeps on doing this, I'll walk away from him in the future.

Hey, thanks! I thought there's no way to block it! I've been looking for something like this.

He really wants to know everything. He wants to catch me sending love emails to someone. Me and my sisters are not allowed to have a boyfriend. That's why he wants to bust us. I wish I can delete it without him knowing. I am planning to put a virus in that laptop so that it will be reformatted. But it will be only temporary because I'm sure he'll install it again.

That's right. We should have a private time alone and be ourselves without them knowing. Trust really is an issue in the family. I am living like Nemo. I have a father who is over protective. I so wish I'm free as a bird.

Father is such a hypocrite. Before he installed that keylogger, he laughs at people having a Facebook account. He doesn't even like Friendster. He quoted that people with Facebook accounts are desperate to get married. LOL. But right now, he has 3 accounts and he likes to blog at certain profiles. Yeah, I am old but my parents still treat me like a baby. He yelled at my 18 years old sister yesterday in public. It made me mad because we shouldn't be treated that way. I sometimes wish I can just escape and run away from this house. I really need an iphone. By December I'll have one. But I can't play my applications in Facebook. At least I can surf the web without that keylogger.

The PC is considered his and mom's, and the laptop is for us girls. But they sometimes use it because it's faster.

Yeah. There are things that my parents won't need to know. I am not doing anything wrong. I just want to have my own space. I really respect my parents. My father just don't trust me. I can't log in on facebook in my laptop. I'm using my brother's.

I'm not the only one he is spying. He monitors my mom's chat with friends abroad. He wants to know if my mom is sad for choosing him and got stuck in this country. Parents!

I'm 20 and my father can't let me go. Why can't parents trust their child? I've done everything a parent wish their child would be. I graduated college, passed the board exam and now I'm looking for a job. Are they still expecting too much?! *chill*