worst enemy?
@roger_nautilus (335)
Philippines
October 28, 2010 3:03am CST
Did it ever happen to you that your worst enemy ended up as your friend?
15 responses
@wmraul (2552)
• Bucharest, Romania
28 Oct 10
Well, I can't say that worst enemy may become close friend, but this is a problem of how one approaches the problem.
If one keep himself open mind and can see if one suposed enemy is or may become a friend or an ally while what makes him an enemy is no longer a issue ... Sometime is hard to accept and ometimes is a matter of image - other may not undrstand why the one you just treated a enemy ince yestarday, from today is in your company.
Accepting a former enemy as friend require a mixture of understanding and open mind. Me personaly I sometime use this as a tactic to check if one is worth the attention: I push a bit a small conflict then after let things come back to normal (including me accepting I was actually wrong and he/she right), then watch if the one is open minded enough to accept ...
@roger_nautilus (335)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
that's cool.. besides he won't be your worst enemy if ever he didn't see something worst in you.. reight? hehe
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
Haven't to me,but I don't think I would like to have one. Scary and I don't think I coulnd trust that person.
@kimigory4business (97)
• Romania
28 Oct 10
Well it's very nice that you put the question this way, but you should now that you don't have enemies, your worst enemy and your best friend depend on the situation is only you, what's outside is only a reflection of what you continually think and feel on the inside.
I know that this sounds strange for over 90% of the population but if you analyze your thoughts and felling for a period of time you will see that you are creating your reality.
If you don't believe me just put my words to the test, analyze what you think and feel for 2-3 months and you will see who is your real enemy.
@roger_nautilus (335)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
hmm. you sound like a quantum physicist or parapsychologist... hehe,.. but I guess you're right, sometimes the worst enemy is none other but ourselves...
@roger_nautilus (335)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
hmmm.. you're right... but sometimes we end up beating each outher up before that happens... hehe
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
28 Oct 10
no not really once I lost the trust I have given even to my firends before its impossible to be friends again..I had the worst enemy of my life and I can say ,aybe till now?lol but we dont really see each other
@roger_nautilus (335)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
what do you think would happen if ever you see each other again?
@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
29 Oct 10
No in reality never happened to me a thing like that...it seemed like a movie this situation not really in normal life...anyway i have not much enemies so may be for that...
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
28 Oct 10
Nope because i don't have any enemies and least of all worst enemies!
I have been friends with people whom i didn't want to be friends with but i had to be since they were part of our group and it would be bad to do otherwise. I have been in tight spots before but not as much as this. I usually always end up having the wrong sort of friends who fortunately or unfortunately become some of my best friends since i hang around them a lot. I have never been in that position what you mentioned before and i don't think i would be in the same!
Cheers!
@prasanthwills (32)
• India
28 Oct 10
I think it wont be easy to change a worst enemy into friend. It happens some times.
I think it will happen if the reason of enemity was due to some misundertanding from both sides. If they realize what happened then then there is a chance to become friends.
The other one Occurs many times .Our Friend will change into our worst enemy.
if one is changed it is very difficult to escape from them.They will become the worst
because they know all our secrets.
@damned_dle (3942)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
Not yet happened to me! I don't have many friends anyway, and enemies even less! Actually I don't have anyone I consider enemy! But if ever that will happen, its gonna break my heart for sure.