do you feel its wrong to fall in love with your friend?
By srinivas2036
@srinivas2036 (188)
India
October 28, 2010 5:40am CST
Hello friends... i am here with a intresting topic to discuss.
There are many guys and girls who are best friends studying in the same classs.
and some people feel that its a sin to love the friend.. do u agree with that?
because they feel that the person is cheating and making use of friendship and its not really a friendship?
if you love ur friend how will you justify your self... explain to them?
And personally i dont think its wrong to fall in love with a friend and what about you...!!!???
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5 responses
@zahir_dk (1693)
• India
28 Oct 10
Srinivas,
Its not a sin at all. Friendship infact is the first step towards Love. Friends are people with whom we love to be with, share feelings and emotions and thats exactly what you search for in your love.
If you love a friend of yours you should go ahead and let the person know that you have fallen for him/her. If you are sure that you are good friends then the other person will understand you for sure.
@ivansama (758)
• Bulgaria
29 Oct 10
There is nothing wrong with that. when two people spend tons of time together they grow closer and a some point it's natural for romantic feelings to occur.
l'm in a similar position right now actually. l can't really think of a way to explain it to her at the moment.
@vivekan (93)
• India
30 Oct 10
Hey dude,dont get confused and dont take any decision.Just try to find what she is thinking about you.If she is having more faith in you as a friend,dont spoil that man,make up ur mind to be a good and best friend to her forever.
If she is not so deep as friend,just express her your lovely love.
Dont waste a good friend, especially a girl.
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
Thinking that being inlove with a friend is wrong is what is wrong. For some it is taking advantage of the friendship you have established with a friend. But for me, based on experience, it would be better instead. Why? Simply because you know each other well, you had spot in both hearts. You used to get what her/his mood means, and you learned to accept each other's flaws. And if you had your friendship for a long time, that make sure that you can even prolong it if you love each other more. And besides, if we've been together with someone for a long time, possibility of loving him/her is not impossible. There's no rule prohibiting to love a friend.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
no i dont think is wrong^^ but yes some friends dont want to be together as a couple. that is bcs they are afraid that if things go wrong between them their friendship ends. but i dont agree that people should think that way. they should instead think that if they are good friends for sure can be good lovers too if feel something for each other^^ we shouldnt let a true love goes when we find it^^ but fight for it^^
@vivekan (93)
• India
29 Oct 10
No,it not wrong.
Falling in love with ur friend is better than someone whom you even dont know.
But if u r in love with ur friend who has faith and trust in u as a friend will hurt both of u.It is better to take a decision before it is gone too far.
It is better not to spoil a friendship than a love.
