Do you text at the dinner table?

Philippines
October 28, 2010 12:15pm CST
Miss Manners tells you not to… Some countries say it is rude to do so. How about to answer a call? I really hate it when someone disturbs me when I eat. If ever the phone rings, I wouldn’t be the first one to answer it. Survey says that Canadians are the most well-mannered than Malaysians and Filipinos in this situation. It is very impolite, and honestly, how can you eat and text at the same time? Others text at the dinner table and also google? How is that possible?
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29 responses
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
Hello ktmatunog, For me it depends to the situation if you have important text or call to receive i think it is okay to read or reply to it. But if you know that there is no important message to wait or you need to text just focus in eating and eat well. Have a nice day and happy mylotting.
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• Philippines
31 Oct 10
yeah.. i think so too. I would answer the phone when there's a call if it is important. But if it isn't, I'll just leave it ringing. I'll call him/her when I finish eating. If it is a text message - i think it can wait.
@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
28 Oct 10
eheeh in reality when i eat i never used to text at all!!So i think that many times people can do many things contemporary but normally when you have some things you should quit other activities for a short period so when you are eating is one of those occasions i guess..
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• Philippines
31 Oct 10
yes you are right. we should quit other activities when we're eating. We just eat for minutes... Set aside other things first to have a healthy dining...
@shaggin (72234)
• United States
28 Oct 10
I was just wondering this about some of the people who text me back and forth all day. They dont seem to text me around the same time of day. They cook dinner and then I dont hear from them for awhile so I assume they are eating dinner and doing clean up. I think its very sweet. I very rarely text at the dinner table. Most the time I do not eat dinner though I just make my kids food while doing the dishes. Today though I didnt have lunch so I will be eating dinner. I am going to make my kids and I mashed potatoes.
• Philippines
13 Mar 11
Texting in some countries is already a disease. Some couldn't even live without their cellphones when they go out and go to work. Business people are always the number one in need of these little gadgets. Students too - to some extent should have a cellphone to keep them up to date on their schedules and appointments on some group activities and projects in school. I am trying to say is that, the modern cellphone is now a NECESSITY.
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@cream97 (29086)
• United States
14 Mar 11
Hi. ktmatunog. No. I cannot text while I am at the dinner table. I would be too engrossed with my food than to text. I think that it is rude. It is best to excuse oneself when they feel the need to text while they are at the dinner table. I don't know how they can do it, I guess they have gotten so used to it, but it is rude. If someone calls me while I am eating, I will not answer my phone. When me and my husband is sometimes at the dinner table, someone calls him while he is eating. And then me and him are talking too. I don't like it, it is very annoying. I wished that he would not answer his cell phone. But knowing my husband, he answers most of his phone calls, as it is related to his business, mostly.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
14 Mar 11
Hi. ktmatunog. No. I cannot text while I am at the dinner table. I would be too engrossed with my food than to text. I think that it is rude. It is best to excuse oneself when they feel the need to text while they are at the dinner table. I don't know how they can do it, I guess they have gotten so used to it, but it is rude. If someone calls me while I am eating, I will not answer my phone. When me and my husband is sometimes at the dinner table, someone calls him while he is eating. And then me and him are talking too. I don't like it, it is very annoying. I wished that he would not answer his cell phone. But knowing my husband, he answers most of his phone calls, as it is related to his business, mostly.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
14 Mar 11
I am very sorry about the double posting. My internet connection tends to act up from time to time.
@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
28 Oct 10
I don't text at all, but I did, it really wouldn't matter, as I live alone, and I don't have anyone here to tell me not to. I used to text, but I just don't do it anymore, as I talk now instead of texting. I only a few texts only once in a great while, one being when I am babysitting the grand kids as I don't want to be interrupted with a phone call, while I am taking care of them. I need to devote myself to them and not to phone calls or texzting. My daughter lives a long ways from me, so we talk everyday, and when I have to babysit, I will just text her and tell her not to call, as I will call her when I return back home. Take care, and have a very good day.
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• Philippines
31 Oct 10
It's so hard to text right. We might as well call. I also had minimalized texting these days... I can text my mother to ask how she is... And my aunt. That's all. I do all my communication with friends and families through the internet now.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
2 Nov 10
I think texting at a dinner table is very rude. Answering the phone is pretty much the same. Unless it is an emergency, it is just rude. It doesn't even have to be at the dinner table. If I have a friend over, I will glance at the caller ID if the phone rings. If it is just someone who I know wants to chat, I let my answering machine pick up and I call them back later. I don't do much texting anyway and I really don't get how you can text and eat or text and visit or text and drive.
• United States
29 Oct 10
I don't text and eat, that's like driving and texting, you can't do both effectively well. I will text while I'm at the dinner table or lunch counter because I'm just catching up with my digital correspondence. I won't text or talk on the phone when I'm eating, that is rude. If my phone rings my kids think I should immediately answer it. I taught them a long time ago that the phone is there for my convenience not the person calling me.
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
i think it is okay when you are alone eating but not with other people around..
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
While we are during dining, one must not bring a cellphone with us. Even answering the phone must be avoided. There must be someone to pick up a call but definitely not the one in the table. Accepting call must also be prohibited except for emergencies. Well, for us this is because we have lot of time to chat or talk with someone else but while having dining shoud always be respected. That's how we learned it.
@Jacobus1919 (1683)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
Well, I used to text message during dinner. But only, some times. Mostly though I leave me mobile at my room. This is to prevent texting.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
1 Nov 10
Yes, i do text and even answer calls while dining. It's a habit within my family and we are used to it. It's even so when we are eating with friends, we will pick up calls naturally. It's ok between family and friends but when it comes to formal dinner or important events, it's better to switch off our phones. If we are waiting for important calls, excuse ourself from the table and pick up the call outside.
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
When I'm in front of the dining table, I really don't bring my cellphone because for me eating must be enjoyed with all our senses. There should be no destruction while eating.
• United States
29 Oct 10
The rule in my house is no cell phones at the dinner table! This doesn't always go over well but, its the idea of dinner time is family time. I hate it when people text or talk on the phone while eating unless its an emergency. I just think its disrespectful to the people around and you are excluding yourself from the family time. :o)
@durgabala (1360)
• India
29 Oct 10
I am very strict at that, no phone answering, calls or texting or googling but sometimes we do have to answer phone calls. not all have the same dining time.
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
29 Oct 10
I don't actually bring my phone with me everywhere. As far as I remember, I never did text messaging at dinner table, far from chatting on the phone. I always expect the caller to call back sometimes later so next time they will learn and realise that, that is actually a dinner time when they called. My partner and I have been behaving like this about calls for many years, so all our friends actually understood it so they never attempt to call or sms while dinner, lunch time, and after 10 pm in the night and before 9 am in the morning.
@carpediem17 (1315)
• Singapore
29 Oct 10
Indeed it is not very polite to text or answer calls at the dining table unless you are with very familiar people like your family. But even then we should mind our P's and Q's and show some respect for our company. Unless we are expecting something urgent, we should just have a proper dinner with table conversations.
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
I don't text at dinner table. I usually turn off my phone when I'm eating. Some people do anything while using their cellphone and I think they're attracting accidents and making life shorter for them.
@louie847 (350)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
In our family, we consider eating together as a time of bonding and we value really value that moment. When someone is texting while on the table we think of it as a sign of disrespect. There is a time for texting and especially a time for the family.
• China
29 Oct 10
NO,i think it is impolite.It is a bad manner