Have you ever been bullied?

@Kirinx (1688)
United States
October 28, 2010 8:00pm CST
I was just remembering my younger years in junior high when and I recalled that I was bullied alot because in class I was the quiet kid and people often liked to pester you if you looked weaker then them/insecure. xD little did they know... the quiet kid with the glasses doesnt mean that your weak. After a while of bullying I had enough of it and beat the (fill in the rest) out of this one person who wouldnt leave me be . tch I twisted my left hand I hit him so much and he went to the hospital..while i went to the doc's for my hand... Anyway just wondering have any of you guys been bullied? If so what did you do to stop it? Did you beat the creme filling out of the person or spoke to an teacher and they helped.?? Share away folks!
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
Luckily i have not been bullied. he he I mean, i have not experienced anyone who has been that mean to actually bully me... What i see in tv or in movies... like some girls making fun of the nerd people.. i have not experienced nor have seen that in our school before. I guess we are lucky to not have such people in our school that is capable of doing these bad things to others...
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@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
29 Oct 10
dont forget its not always guys who are getting bullied its girls to XD and yea i guess you are lucky not having to deal with that.
@beeh13u (1037)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
I've watched in movies how kids are being bullied in the US. It's not like here in my country. I only knew one incident. It didn't happen in school but they beat the crap out of the innocent little boy. Bullies are wieners, not winners. Hope they'll end up in jail.
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@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
29 Oct 10
True true thanks for your opinion. Most of them end up in jail eventually.
@saizo6 (2199)
• United States
29 Oct 10
Luckily for me I was never bullied during my school days. Even though I was the quiet type I had many friends. And we were a tight group so the others knew not to mess with any of us because they'd have to deal with everyone else. Plus, fighting wasn't the best solution. I grew up in a small town where everyone knew each other so any incident like that would have been around town by the end of the day.
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
29 Oct 10
Wow the kid must have bullied you really bad that you decided to hit him that bad haha! Hope he learnt his lesson since then. I'm very lucky because though I was quite in my class and only have few friends but no one ever actually bullied me. I only had few friends because I'm actually a picky person, I don't choose to be a friend of everyone. If I ever had been bullied then I know that I would never hesitate to report it to the teacher straight away.
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@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
31 Oct 10
XD he learned his lesson alright he even apologized in the end. the funny thing the teacher watched him bullying me and didnt say anything so i figured she just gave me the heads up to beat him up.
@creyos (275)
• Indonesia
29 Oct 10
I had been bullied, not in my school years nor my teenage years. In fact, my school and teenage years was very wonderful. However, this bullying incident just recently happened to me in my ex company. And I finally felt how's the feelings of being intimidated.
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@creyos (275)
• Indonesia
29 Oct 10
And yes it is, the adult or office bullying is extremely more complex as you need to keep calm and stay professional even in disguise and it's hard! :(
@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
29 Oct 10
yikes adult bullying thats rougher then the teens doing it. I'm hoping that your life is bit better since this incident. at least since they are adults they cant physically harm you cuz you can sue and have them heavily punished.
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
I guess i was the one bullying :) just kidding :) way back when i was in high school they always teased me. i don't know why. i also left alone :( that was sad high school is not the best for me because of that :(
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@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
29 Oct 10
high school is a worse grade to be teased in then lets say junior high cuz by high school the bullies already mastered the art of cruelty, at junior high the brats are just learning. Looking at your avatar the dudes/dudettes were prolly just jealous because your lovely. typical..
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
Wow that was the first :) thank you for saying that :)
• Canada
29 Oct 10
i was bullied a little in high school because i was quiet but one day i almost punched her out, after that she never bothered me again. no one should ever have to put up with that.
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@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
29 Oct 10
good job! im glad you almost punched her lights out. bullies are a pain...as if life isnt hard enough!
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
29 Oct 10
Fortunately I've never been bullied. I wasn't particularly big or too quite as well. Plus I am not really a people person. I did act friendly to some but most of the time people would leave me alone. It's a 'I don't mess your life so leave me alone' concept. It work as I did accidentally punch a boy during my first month of school. It was a reflex but nobody took it that way, even after I explained the whole thing. That boy wasn't even hurt. Ah well~~~
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@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
29 Oct 10
if only the idiots in my school understood that leave me alone concept then perhaps I wouldnt of had to beat up the bullies.
@marguicha (223109)
• Chile
29 Oct 10
Yes I was bullied a lot when I was a small girl. It was not the kind of bullying you hear of now, with boys or girls hitting each other. It was the kind of psychological bullying that children (often so cruel) do to other child who doesn´t quite fit in the group. I was a subject to bullying of the kind for my first 6 years of school. I never had a friend, everything I did was mocked by the rest. At those times, parents did not go to speak up for their children and elementary school teachers had not heard about the word psychology. The only help I got from my father was to go every first day of school to talk with the headmistress and tell her that I was lefthanded and I should be let use my left hand in every thing (in those days some teachers would tie the left hand of the culprit so that he would learn to write with their right hand). Now that I remember about it, I don´t know how I could bear it. It was terrible until I met my first friend. My parents were not aware of my problems because what made me and easy target for bullying was what made them proud of me. I was 2 years ahead of the rest at school, knew a lot of vocabulary the other girls had never even heard about, had read maybe more books than the teacher. So I was used as a slave by the other girls at the playground of left out completly, telling me that I was stupid. Many of my friends now were bullied when they were small kids for about the same reasons. I´m talking about schools in my country 55 years ago. A teacher could hit a pupil if she wished. The world was absolutly different yet some conducts are still used and it seems noone takes care of stopping them. It would be interesting though to check on stadistics. The bullys are usually mediochre students who end up being losers. The bullied people as a mayority overcome that situation and learn to deal well with a difficult world. Finally they have better positions in all aspects of life.
@marguicha (223109)
• Chile
29 Oct 10
Bullies are always losers at the end. The problem is that meantime they do a lot of harm. I do wish society. parents, teachers, the whole system, took care of refraining the jungle ways from the beginning.
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@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
29 Oct 10
man that sounds rough sorry to hear that dude.. the verbal abuse isnt much better then the physical but at least like u mentioned that the bullies turn out to be the losers in the end.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
29 Oct 10
I was fortunate enough to never have been bullied in my school years. i was never a bully either. i always felt sorry for those who were bullied by another student. There never seemed to be a reason for it.
@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
31 Oct 10
yup your right there is never a real good reason for bullying if you dont like a person leave them alone XD. bullying=loser=jail=buttraped in jail cell :)
@tincabzh (173)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
yes! by rich girls in my school because i cant have what they do have so they laugh at me and never be friends with me, but when i saw them nowadays they already had babies and they are jobless ugly housewives now!!! and i earned a lot more than they do have! some of them became single moms!
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@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
31 Oct 10
XD heh thats how it usually is the morons that are bullies usually end up miserable in the years to come.
@rdm001 (69)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
Yep, I was bullied like a hell lot of times. Why? Because I'm a skinny kid, though my height suffice for the lack of weight. I never did like fighting in any sort of way, I tried avoid it in any way possible but you cant run for fights forever, one day, this punk tried to bully me even though he is a freagin midget, I was so pissed because he was picking on me in front of a hell lot of people we know, I told him to meet me at the new building at 5 o' clock after school. He actually did came, with his friends, probably 12 of them, and its just me, though they did not gang me, they did not have the courage to do so. So we fought and I beat the crap out of him badly ever since then that punk never did lay his hands on me.
@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
31 Oct 10
Wooo! nice :D im glad you taught that idiot his lesson.
• Canada
29 Oct 10
Well I was raised in a pretty tough area and because I have been short all my life people had figured it was a free ticket to pick and beat on me. I'll tell you this, bullying turned me into a pretty mean and nasty person to have a problem with not.
@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
31 Oct 10
heheh i believe you being bullied will definetly toughen you up and turn you into a nasty person to try to bully.
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
Well bullying is always around either you're in school or office or just around the neighborhood. Yeah i got bullied before when i was still in my Grade School as well as in High School. I'm quite short in height before, tiny as well. But i never back down to those who intend to bully me, even before i was already a fighter. I still don't know any kind of martial arts before but i surely make one hell of a fight. I make sure i send them a message that whatever happens even f i get beaten up badly i will never back down. People get to know me for being a "stupid", simply because even if i got knock down and sometimes beaten up badly i still stand up and fight. Going to college was a different story already. When i was in my 2nd-3rd year of college i started going to the gym. I got bigger and bigger. That's makes the difference, people don't bully you or even attempt to fight you when you're bigger. Every time i visit my province and met some old friends from grade and high school i only hear one same thing from them, that i'm huge. They even don't bother remembering the time they've bullied me. I had a lot of fighting experience, either street fighting or legitimate ring fight or just a sparring fight. All of those i just have one rule, i may lost a fight but i will never back down.
@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
31 Oct 10
XD nice motto bullies like for you to be the pray not to fight back. its good you held you ground dude.
@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
31 Oct 10
oops i meant your ground..dumb typo.
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
My experienced was my classmate, the biggest boy in our class during my grade 1 at primary level, used to tease me until i cry. He's doing it almost every week. After that school year, I transferred to another school. Unfortunately, on the 4th grade he became my classmate again, and he makes me cry again. Then I transferred again. Very unfortunate of me to be his classmate again on the 6th grade. And a blessing that we move to another country for a while. You won't believe it, when we came back to our country and i studied 4th year in secondary level... he is my schoolmate... then on the 3rd quarter of that school year our classes were merged! I'm a type of person who will avoid cruel people as much as possible, that was before.
@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
31 Oct 10
o_O holy crap talk about bad luck...jeez... i would think that person had it out for me after a while... i dont prefer to fight either but i wont be anyone's punching bag. i'm patient but after a while... if you keep bothering me you get what you get. ^^
• China
29 Oct 10
Good for you !!!Your discussion reminds me of my childhood .To be frank ,i was bullied a lot as you ,maybe even more .But i was not as brave as you to fight them back .For one hand ,i wasn't strong enough to beat the annoying guys .I didn't know any martial art either .For the other hand ,the bad boys often came to me togheter .You know ? yeah ,it is really a big humiliation of my life .The situaton was better when i went to high school .Most of my classmates were friendly and nice .Even so ,i made up my mind to build up my body in case any accidents happen .I have to admit that gene is really vital in one's body .Although i worked out frequently during high school ,i didn't became stronger or something ,which really let me down .But i swear that i won't let anyone bully me .Never !
@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
31 Oct 10
I wasnt brave its called being fed up not to mention i have quite a temper lol. Another thing i was not particuarly strong since most men/boys are significantly stronger then girls most of the time. I'm a girl so i'm not the strongest but I am pretty fast and what good is strength if you cant hit me cause your blows cant connect. ^_^ you dont need to know martial arts to kick someone's butt just simple defensive fighting. which my parents taught me really.. . I realized from experience when fighting if you can get the person on the floor or get behind them they are yours. =^_^= fighting more then one person would be difficult like you mentioned luckily for me i didnt have that issue. Muahahaha ahem anyway good to know you built up your body im sure your stronger then you even realize.
@vangie26 (445)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
Bullies are anywhere. Wayback, i can still remember that one of our classmates used to ask to get her things within her reach from one of my classmate also who were so quiet and tame. They love to take advantage of the weaker person. But come to think of it, they are the insecured one who just want to boast. I just hope that they are just like that when still a kid because it's not funny anymore if they are grown ups already.
@Galena (9110)
29 Oct 10
what do you mean it's not funny anymore? it's not funny when they're children either. they destroy lives. it's not like a joke that got out of hand, it's pure malice and spite, enjoying making someone else suffer.
• China
29 Oct 10
when I was in the school , I always be bullied because I am a good man , I donot say anything if somebody will bull me . it is not a good charastic , so I change it when I was in university .