If a Mylotter gives advices and tips do you Listen?

hi kodukodu

Hello kodu, Yeah, i notice you respond also that much. but i have responded to one of you're discussions, which is pretty understandable since i can related and i don't respond to discussions or topics that much either. well, as long as we are here, options are limitless, right or wrong, it's for us to chose.

Hey, Hi! Hope you are doing well

I can see that you are really a hard working girl and your few months of tenancy in mylot and the huge figures besides your name is self explanatory. You are qualified to be a mentor as you have crisscrossed mylot that earned you much more experiences than some old timers here.

Hello hardworkinggurl, Well, you're smart enough to be a veteran already, my first impression proves it otherwiseit's good advising others from information that you got from the other users, most specially the oldies. i agree with zandi, you are indeed qualify to be a mentor in this manner.

Awwh thank you, as I enjoy myLot very much, but must admit it is the discussions that draw me in daily.

Hello zandi, wow, that's nice of you to remind this person to comment on all discussions. i think it's gonna be lazy for that responder in terms of replying to a discussion again if the topic starter didn't even bother comment on the responder's message. i know, i get lazy myself when it's not commented. have a great day

Hi Zandi and L.Knight I think, I am that newbie, Zandi ll recognize me, I started that discussion and I didnot know at that time that it ll be good for me to comment on my responder. I felt very happy when Zandi and my other senior fellows gave me advices and guidelines links, from there I came to know that you can only survive in community if you take part in discussion and then follow that discussion. Following certain discussion in my view is necessary but rarely seen this, althought there are senior members who follow their discussion but other members are not following. I am glad to be with seniors and happy that I am getting a lot of information through these posts. Thanks

Hello tonyllenium, oh, ok. well, some of those advices in mylot are not even close to the guidelines so we should just listen to it. but of course, to see is to believed i think,. have a great day.

Hello hippiemom, well, make sure the error doesn't result in a violation double post. mylot can be slow most of the time. mastering it is a different thing, i have also experience that teaches me to avoid this and that. we should all appreciate the reminders since it's gonna help us avoid the bigger picture of problems some day

hello jypsyjulia, that's nice of you to say. well, this is one site that every one doesn't have to be rude to each other.there's always ways to earn some money with out causing too much trouble i believed.i hope more people are like you, because oldies can't hang out much longer, some go, some returns.

Helo carmel, well, he's till around he's just invisible, it's even harder to find him these days he will be missed, no thanks to those trolls by the way. it's hard when an old friend disappears from something. i am glad you can still give advice in you're spare time. have great time.

Hello cyrus, some advices can be wrong and others are not worth listening/reading to. well, most advices i have seen from the oldies or veterans only. well, i don't know about you but i think most people are gonna "listen to you instead of the other way around"thanks a lot for the response and have a great day

Hello sender, well, that's for sure i don't listen if it doesn't feel right. if the discussion is i think offensive on my part then i will just leave it alone.it's not good when we are not used to topics that is way out of line i guess. no body wants to force listen themselves but should be according to what we feel too. thanks and have a great day

that's good to know. have agreat day

hello aaleexix, that's right. trouble is that some can be ignorant in making too much topics or breaking the rules of discussion. i guess experience is the best teacher, if admin teaches them a lesson, then they are toast but if they are pssionate about mylot, they will come back for sure.

Hello mspitot, My advice?oh, yeah i do give advices, how could i forget anyways, it's not just for me, it's for you as well. so that when am not really not that around anymore you can tell the newbies how to avoid getting into trouble. nice seeing you again, have a great day

Hello hushi, that's one of the best thing about mylotters. you're not alone and some of them had experience a lot worse than you. when they advice, it gives you the ease of not enduring it so much because other have gone through the same pain. i suggest you continue being here. like the other user said, you are gonna learn a lot more.

hello saqi, that's the best thing i've heard so far from a newbie. but mylot isn't really a torture site so there's no point of being afraid. it's just that the admin is very active and any violation they find, they can have it deleted. don't worry, you will get use to it. well, you should chose the solution best for you. what if the most agreed solution isn't the best for you? you have to choose for you..

Hi and thanks for appreciation Yes, this thing can happen, because my situation can be different from other due to my culture or practices or any other thing. May be the solution which is considered best by user, is non-acceptable in my society, then at that time I ll search for a suggestion from a person whos suggestion is according to my norms and culture, if still I am unable to any solution which is acceptable in my society then I ll try to get the suggestion from my friends near to me in the same society. But I think this is in very rare cases, mostly we share almost same norms every where in the world, only there are few differences. And I ll still post my problem to get suggestions from myLotters, because I can get some very good suggestion over here, which could not be in my or my friends mind, over here, as I know, every answer is based on experience and you know there is no alternate for experience... Be happy and be the cause of happiness for others