Younger or older partners?
By audsalas
@prettyauds (258)
Philippines
20 responses
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
Hi maean_19! Me too, when I was in my college days,as I've seen so many relationship around me and have met new interesting people,I came down to think that when I decide to settle down,I want to be with a older guy (like older than 5 to 8 years than me). I see them as more mature and more caring than guys at my age. But when a close friend of mine had a relationship with a much much older than her,I somehow seen that it's quite difficult to adjust. Adjust in almost everything in your life. The way you dress,you talk,you think and even the way you laugh. OMG! I wouldn't want to imprisoned myself with whom I am. Hahahaha! Anyway,this is just my opinion. ^_^
@fanzejian (372)
• China
29 Oct 10
I prefer the peers ,you are right that elder person are mature and responsoble and the yonger are full power everyday .but the peers are very comfortable to me coz we can talk about some problems with our views at the same time and we could live in the same age ,we have the common language ,common topic.
just you could imagine that those phenominon are very good.
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
I do agree with you. Having a partner with the same age as mine is much more fun to be with. You could talk about the same interest,ask him about some things that you were able to enjoy when you were young. Plus,some guys with the same age as ours (girls) could relate with the fashion that we want. ^_^
@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
31 Oct 10
in reality i always had relationship with younger partners than me..so just 1 time i had a relationship with a girl older but it did not work for other motivations than age!!In reality i would not consider age a great obstacle in relationship as we as the difference wouldn't be so much!!
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
5 Nov 10
I think it depend on character of everyone. If we feel that he/her is suitable with us, young or old is not problem.
@ipenk1000 (207)
• Indonesia
30 Oct 10
If parents have never grown up, but that young parents have never...
choose according to you hearts desire...
choose one not both
hahahahahaha...............joke
@joey_matthews (8354)
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29 Oct 10
I prefer to have a relationship with someone close to my age, not much older or much younger. My wife is only 6 months older than me and that is not too far off the limit i would of gone to before i met her. Obviously now i'm not looking for another relationship as i've found the person for me so it doesn't matter now.
@yellowhipon (793)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
Maturity really doesn't come with age. My 1st boyfriend was 8 years older than me. We broke up because he's so immature. I was in my freshman year in college and still adjusting with college life. Although we see each other everyday, he still gets jealous with my studies. How's that??? He knows my class schedule. Say, I have a 7-8:30 class. He expects me to call him by 8:31. What's with that??? So I broke up with him. I had a boyfriend two years younger than me and he was far more understanding and mature.
My husband is 4years older than me, not too older. But we really get along well. So I think its a matter of compatibility, not age.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
29 Oct 10
Younger partners can make you feel younger but they are not often lacking in experience. Older partners are usually more experienced and behave in a more caring manner.
@pogi253 (1596)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
There are many benefits to dating an older woman form a younger man’s perspective. Many younger men appreciate what an older woman can bring to the table as far as relationships go. Younger men trust the older woman to handle their life better than a younger woman with less experience. Younger men love the attention they receive from the older woman. Older women are experienced in life and know exactly what they want. This can be very helpful to her partner because she knows exactly what will make her happy. A woman who is older than her partner will also be have more money that a younger woman. The older woman will also have her car, house and a very successful career. A man dating her will not have to worry about bills being paid or if their will be a problem with the woman proving for themselves. An older woman is also more realistic and calmer about life. She is more likely to give an honest answer and help her partner set reasonable goals for their future together.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
29 Oct 10
yes auds is true what you say^^ i guess that younger guys are more innocent and more sweet^^ but older boys are more responsible thats true. but about me i prefer guys about my age^^ like 21, 22, 23 ^^ even if is a bit younger is ok^^ like if is 19 is ok^^ im 20 right now^^ sure i prefer older but if is younger only one year or monthes isnt a big deal^^ i just want a caring and sweet guy to love me^^ i found one but things are not good right now
@enthusiasticone (348)
• China
30 Oct 10
hello friend. my partner is younger than me . and i like the younger girl living with me together. that will give me more interesting things to do . and she could find some unusual things from life. so one has his own like for this. just choose what you like. and live well together with each other. that is a good way for life. thank you .
@crimiloilo123 (77)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
Well I prefer to follow what I feel rather than to be choosy in terms of age.If you don't want mature human,well don't choose.If you feel that you will be living comfortable with those mature partner,go for the gold.Try to explore different things and research about what would be the characteristics of having a mature or younger man or woman,and by that the world will be better.
@animalrock95 (47)
• United States
30 Oct 10
Well me, I prefer the older guys. Yes they are more mature, and yes they are more responsible, but what they really have is experience!
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
of course we all have different opinions / preferences on this one, i would just like to share my views...well i personally prefer older guys because i find younger guys to seem more immature than me...well not just physically but more importantly emotionally and mentally... i know maturity for a fact doesnt really come with age.... it always depends on the person's experience or past...
but anyway...so far i haven't found anyone who's younger than me who acted as if he's older than me....happy my lotting!
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
29 Oct 10
Younger or older, it does not matter that much to me because what matter is the person not the age. But I won't like too young or too old though, just about two or three years younger or older than me is fine. My fiance is a little bit younger than me but he acts maturely more than I do.
@johan143 (164)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
When i was still single i prefer older guys. Yes, because the're mature, responsible, secure and have more experiences on the way of life. I was waiting for a guy ten years older than me. I met some of them, but they are already "taken". My husband was four years younger than me, yes! his jolly, he's like a child and acts like a child, thats why our kids prefer him than me when it comes to playtime. However, he is conservative, serious in his works, intelligent and goodlooking. Some of my male friends ask why i choose him since they know that one of my qualifications for a future partner is older than me. I said " i don't know why. maybe it's destiny".
@beeh13u (1037)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
I like a guy who has the same age as I am. I can connect with him in music, sports, movies and much more. Being with an older guy they said is comforting to be with. They treat you like a princess. I think it's true. Because if you're with the same age, it feels like your classmate.
@ronald14 (35)
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29 Oct 10
For me, I prefer older partners. Because I believe many of the people who is older than their partner have a wide understanding. And that is right because they tend to be more mature than the younger people. And they are responsible too. They are the person who's mind is stable in work. And they are the people who's mind is all set in having a serious relationship and serious to their work. Unlike the younger people who's mind set on hanging out with friends anywhere. In short they are not mature enough to enter into a serious relationship.