Im more happy and relax when im not at home.
By xenachinah30
@xenachinah30 (597)
Philippines
October 29, 2010 6:33am CST
Yes,i know this is strange for some people but for me this is how i feel .
I FEEL MORE RELAX AND HAPPY WHEN IM NOT AT HOME.Because at home i feel like im in hell always.
Always noisy because we are many siblings and the kids are noisy all the time.
When im at home i just feel relax and rest if everybody is already sleeping.
My father when he's home more noisy because he always want to hear loud music.He always shout he can not speak softly.
My youngest sibling i hate the most because he likes teasing the kids always.
He is very happy when he can make the kids angry and crying.Strange attitude i guess.
The tv is always on every day and night it is only off when everybody is already sleeping.
I dont know whats wrong with me but i just hate noise.
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14 responses
@soyelses (3)
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29 Oct 10
Hi there, I can relate to your feelings! I left home because of the stress and tension caused by my family. You can not change too much at home, as it is the home of your family. I would suggest you leave on good terms with your family and set up your own home where you can have your own rules. Good luck
@xenachinah30 (597)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
hI,
welcome here at my lot.Yeah,i think that is only the best way i can do so i iwll have privacy and piece of mind whatever i want to.I can have my own rule and can be independednt to from the famiy.
thanks..goodluck too..godbless...
@KRTWORLDWIDE (511)
• India
29 Oct 10
Not only you, many people are like this. But you should not forget a fact that family is the main thing for any person. No one should neglect family, for anything. No family, no happy. One should always remember this. If you donot have peace in your family, then you should make your family members to realise this situation, so that they can change themselves according to you. If you keep on staying away from home, then in future it will lead to family related probelms.
TAKE CARE
@xenachinah30 (597)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
Hi,
I hate the things that is going on and happening everyday in my home but it doesnt mean i already hate my family.
I just hate everybodys attitude but not them as my family.
I know i can change peoples lives an di can not manipulate them because im only a sibling and a daughter but yeah i think the best reason is have my own house move away and just help them in a way i can and visit them when i have free time.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
29 Oct 10
If you are 18, the best thing you need to do is leave home and find your won apartment where you can find your peace. Besides, at that age you also need you privacy and there no doubt that you will not be able to find that privacy in home as congested as that one you describe.
@xenachinah30 (597)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
Hi,
That is what im planning to do to have my own house as soon as i can.
I can not live like this for the rest of my life and as soon as i can get the job abroad i wil start planning for my own little house.
@lowellhenderson65 (265)
• United States
30 Oct 10
I understand. I have two grown kids that still live at home and they have pretty much taken over the house. Always noisy,always people here I don't know...and usually don't want to know. It can get to be very frustrating.
@whitestich02 (1056)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
same with me..
i'm not 100% happy when im not at home because
family is the best giving happiness for me.
although all of that are too much busy there's no time to give happiness to me.
@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
29 Oct 10
well this is so sad for you but i do love the feel with the family around .
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
I feel the same way. But I am not saying that home is like hell. It is just that I get more stressed when I am with my family at home. I can be more productive when I live independently. Maybe because I cannot concentrate when I am at home. My attention got easily diverted when they disturb me. That is why, I am trying to maintain my apartment for me to get more privacy.
@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
i feel the other way around. it's the best place for me to get started if i want to get back from being shattered or whatever. it's not really peaceful there as always because of my nephews and nieces but their presence makes me happy and smile all the time. it's home and always be the place i'm going back again and again no matter where i go.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
29 Oct 10
The one place that we should always be happy and relaxed at is home. It is sad to see that you are not happy and relaxed there. I hope that you can find a place where you will have your own peace and tranquility.
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
Oh my. It isn't true then that the home is the best place we can ever be. I can see that you have a big household and so you can't avoid the noisy atmosphere. When the kids will be grown ups, they will be going out of that home and there will be peace and quiet.
@enthusiasticone (348)
• China
30 Oct 10
hello friend. i feel the same as you . and i don't like to stay at home though have so many housework to do . but i like more people and like to talk with other peopel in the street . so often go out for a long time in a week for chatting with our neigbours or freinds. and will deal with the housework together at weekend.
@Krizz420canada (531)
• Canada
29 Oct 10
Well I'm 32 and totally understand the feeling of being relaxed when I'm not home. Its like when we leave our houses we are kind of leaving the problems behind for a short time. Even though it really doesn't happening. Also when we are out and about there is more going on to keep the mind busy so your not focusing on all that stuff around you at home. I personally don't mind being home sometimes and love it when I have the house to myself.
