can you forgive your friend for this?
By harry89
@harry89 (2330)
India
October 29, 2010 10:40am CST
It hurts a lot if a good friend of us betray us. If one of your good friends is saying bad words about you to other and you come to know about it from those people then would you forgive your that friend and continue your friendship or break your friends?
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7 responses
@Crizzack (42)
• United States
29 Oct 10
I couldn't forgive for that which is weird
because I had a friend who dated my ex girlfriend who I was
stupidily very much in love with at the time, and I forgave him
after a little bit, but if your "friend" is saying nasty
things about you behind your back then their not really
much of a friend then are they?
@harry89 (2330)
• India
30 Oct 10
Ok, so you would investigate the words first what he/she said. Well, even he is saying truth what is the need of telling this to others, no one will like this even if his/her words are true. That's just untolerateable. Happy mylotting.
Thanks for your response.
@joey_matthews (8354)
•
29 Oct 10
I would cut them off quicker than you would see a flash of a light. I really dislike people who do this and I am very luckily that I've weeded all these types out of my life, I just a very good inner circle of friends who are direct and never speak about me behind my back.
Personally I wouldn't forgive them.
@harry89 (2330)
• India
30 Oct 10
Well, i also hate those people who talk behind my back and i love to teach a lesson to that type of people. If a friend talk behing our back then he can't be our fried, he/she is just an enemy of us behind a friend's mask. And we need to be careful of those type of persons. Happy mylotting.
Thanks for your response.
@harry89 (2330)
• India
30 Oct 10
Yea, that's the good decision to do. If we do not break friendship with then and continue our friendship then they can create our dispute with our other friends too. So according to me we should just back off from that relationship. Happy mylotting.
Thanks for your response.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
29 Oct 10
I would hope that a friend of mine is not speaking badly about me, especially if I have not given motivate and or it is not warranted. I would definitely want to know hey it is being done and well depending on the excuse I may end the friendship.
As friendships to me are very valuable and being that I am a loyal friend I would expect the same. I realize that people make the mistakes and perhaps can be sorry later. Ok that is all well and good, I can still be amicable but the friendship will not be the same.
@harry89 (2330)
• India
30 Oct 10
Yea even i won't tolerate this and break our friendship. But it also happens that the friend feels sorry and you have to continue your friendship but then the friendship won't be the same as you said. And i think i will also forgive him. Happy mylotting.
Thanks for your response.
@harry89 (2330)
• India
30 Oct 10
Well you are seeing a positive side of this. But what if he/she says all opposite what you are in real life. It's right if he/she tells you what you have to improve in yourself but he/she is betraying you at your back in real. Happy mylotting.
Thanks for your response.
@whitestich02 (1056)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
it depends to what is the situation what they do to me.
may be if my friend saying a major bad word i think i can't forgive to this situation.
but still we were also friend of mine again.
