The Wrong Ones

Well, being in a wrong relationship is truly difficult. Investing our time and emotions to someone who doesn't deserve it is undeniably painful and regretful. Some people have a hard time realizing and accepting that they are indeed with the wrong one. Who would want a failed relationship right?! And when they finally do, they have to face yet again another agonizing phase or event in this whole situation, letting go. The whole process of breaking up or letting go is probably one of, if not the, most painful things we could ever experience. No matter how hurtful it may be, getting out in a wrong relationship would perhaps be the best decision we'll ever make for ourselves. I think in order to do it, we need to assess the whole relationship if there's something wrong. We also need to evaluate both our partners and ourselves if we're doing our part. It's important to have a willing heart to be able to see things clearly and of course courage to do the right thing especially if the right thing to do is to let go. It may cause a great deal of pain at first but sooner or later, our hearts will heal and learn to love again, hopefully, with the right person. I think it's better not to only dwell on the negative emotions and regret that we feel. We should also dwell on the lessons brought by these experiences. Maybe we were in a wrong relationship to help us mature more, improve ourselves, become stronger and wiser, learn how to really handle a relationship among others. Maybe we were with the wrong person to prepare us for the right one. Life has its own way of making us a better person. Like what I've read, "sometimes we need to learn the hard way". =)

hmmm not really stuck. but i had dated several guys that if i had the chance iw ould not have wanted to meet. i have found the perfect man for me and we are happily married and that is that for me. :-D anyway, yeah i guess you are right, they are stupid and do not deserve you or other loyal and faithful partners as well.

Well i was in love before once and i can say that maybe just maybe it was close to being right one before she dumped me for another guy. I don;t think anyone can say it's right or wrong unless they have known or seen it for themselves. Till then one wouldn't even listen to the word of the wise as they would think whatever they do is right. It's just the age that makes people realize somethings. But being in love one will get to know about many new things like compromise, love, and many more. I have learnt something have you? Cheers!

i had a wrong bf before. he was too careless so i decided that best we broke up. and we did. i didnt love him anymore. i loved him so much and he hurt me and made me cry many times so my feelings started to decrease. i was honest with him and we broke up. im now with right guy^^ i love my bf and i know he loves me too but i dont know if i am the right girl for him. i make many efforts to talk with him and work here also to go see him soon but he doesnt make so many efforts so sometimes i wonder if i really should be with him or not

In my experience, he was the right one for me, but I was the wrong one for him. It's tough. But I forced myself to move on and not waste tears for him. Why should I keep holding on to someone who had already moved on? Life is so ironic.

I have the perfect partner, but one little problem I have is that she has taken me to the wrong country, well wrong city in this country called Nederland. Its a very dull city, got 200000 and not much entertainment, also the people here dont trust english speaking people too much so I cant get a good job. Oh well in the process of getting outa here hahah

Yeah, if a relationship is not working why do both of you force into it ? People are stuck some situations like that has their own reasons but that would turn into a mess when pursued. There is always a right person for everyone, I guess I believe on that, we have to seek whatever might give us true happiness including our choice of a partner. Its just a matter of waiting for the right one. Happy mylotting !

Hello, Nero.:) Welcome to the complicated world of relationships.:) Been ther a lot of times and sad to say he is my husband that's why I just couldn't dump him just like that. Moreover we have kids. So what I am doing right now is I will give him another chance over and over again until I ran out of reasons to do so if he will repeatedly prove himself unworthy of my love nad trust... Yes, it is so easy to say that go leave him and find a new one. But it is more difficult done than said... How I wish it is just like that and viola I can start anew... But hell, we sometimes have to sacrifice our own happiness for the benefits of the majority which is our kids... One day, you will soon realize that love is also about sacrifices... :)

We can't choose who we become attracted to. We don't always know we have picked the wrong one to be with until it is too late.

I see this in a positive way. as the saying goes, "you'll never find the right one until you met the wrong ones." instead, i'm still glad that i met the wrong one because i learned alot from him. i matured more and now know how to handle a relationship much better.