having children is so complicated

You will have to have a lot of patience because even though they aren't the same age, a lot of their demands are going to be the same. You might see if you have friends that might be interested in helping you with the children, but understand that they won't always be there for you. In addition to that, if you are able to come up with a schedule that both of the children will be able to follow, it will make things a lot easier for you.

yah.. having a nanny makes your work easier but can we assure the safety of our kids to them? how can we be sure that they will give their 100% care to our child, much better if one the parents is there for them even they had babysitter.

Hire a nanny so that there is someone to look after your child. With that you and your husband can work at the same time. Having kids is really hard work and the demand in your time and not to mention money but the reward is very fulfilling. Do you agree ma'am adz?