you date a guy only for fun but he loves you...
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
October 29, 2010 12:48pm CST
hi guys^^ 
imagine that you date a guy only for fun^^ but he loves you. then you fall for him as time pass by and then is him that only wants fun^^ karma huh? ahah what would you do then? leave him or continue to see where it goes?^^ about me i couldnt do this date a guy for fun only ahah but if i did i would continue to see what would happen^^ before he loved me and i wanted fun so if now he wanted only fun and i loved him lets see where it goes ahah to do this is bcs we both would be adventurous so maybe could have a happy ending who knows?^^
what about you guys?^^ what would you do?^^ please share^^ 
imagine that you date a guy only for fun^^ but he loves you. then you fall for him as time pass by and then is him that only wants fun^^ karma huh? ahah what would you do then? leave him or continue to see where it goes?^^ about me i couldnt do this date a guy for fun only ahah but if i did i would continue to see what would happen^^ before he loved me and i wanted fun so if now he wanted only fun and i loved him lets see where it goes ahah to do this is bcs we both would be adventurous so maybe could have a happy ending who knows?^^
what about you guys?^^ what would you do?^^ please share^^ 1 person likes this
8 responses
@shibham (16977)
• India
1 Nov 10
Hahaha.. i was just kidding..
Well, i am on that dilemma now, here is a girl who loves me and wants my companion where as she better knows that i can't marry her. She just seeks my support and i am thinking what to do? Perhaps i am about to start a dis regarding this dilemma. take care.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
1 Nov 10
you cant marry her? why? you dont love her? well if she loves you and you dont love her dont be with her^^ that means that she isnt the right girl for you. you should only be with a girl that makes you feel happy^^ and that you feel something for^^ if you want anyway you can be friends with her and meet her better^^ who knows if you dont fall for her later on..
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
of course not. thats why in the discussion explanation i told that if was a girl using a guy also. so in your case you need to answer if you dated a girl for fun and she loved you. thats what you have to answer. when i put he is for both he or she. i dont need to always put he/she. people know already that my discussions are for boys and for girls to answer.
@craigy123456789 (1759)
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29 Oct 10
i would not date anyone for fun, it has to be much more serious than that, i would not want it done to me and so i would not do it to them.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
yes i understand^^ i know that you are a sweet guy and i know that you wouldnt use someone only^^ sure you wouldnt want that someone dated you for fun and then you loved and you got hurt. but i mean if she wanted fun only and you also maybe would be ok for you right?^^ anyway i guess that you prefer have a serious relationship^^ you have a son already so i understand^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
yes you are right craigy^^ you could fall for her or her for you and the other didnt feel the same way and one would get hurt. is good that you want a serious relationship^^ that shows that you are a serious guy^^ and when you love you do everything^^ i wish that for my bf he also wanted to dedicate to me much. but i guess that wont happen. at least for now 
@craigy123456789 (1759)
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30 Oct 10
i would not want fun, it can get way too complicated, rather have a serious relationship.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
Well, a very good discussion again, my friend. I think this kind of post is for a girls talk.
I can't details much about thing regarding this post. Because as I read the content it will pointed to girls...
Fun is good to relax ourselves but not the fun with someone. It makes bad impression to oneself which bring girls diminish confidence I think
Have a nice day!
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
no this post isnt for girls only. this is also for boys^^ anyway im happy that you didnt do this to a girl^^ and wont do^^ that shows that you are a good guy that care for girls feelings^^ sure we shouldnt have just fun with someone unless that person wants only fun also^^ even that way maybe someone can get hurt in the end. so isnt that great thing.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
30 Oct 10
It's not fair to either one of you to lead someone on. If you find the relationship is one sided, it will probably end in misery for both of you. it is wiser to just remain friends if the feelings are not mutual romantically.@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
of course^^ i just meant what would you do if were dating a guy only for fun and you thought he wanted only fun also and then you found out that he loved you. what you would do. thats what i meant here. of course isnt fair to be with someone that loves you and you dont. that would be too bad. for me i would feel bad if i dated a guy that i wanted only fun with him and he loved me.
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
The Law of Karma. If this happens to me, which I think already did, i will return back the karma to him. I will give him a dose of his own medicine by showing him exactly that I'm no woman to fool around. And when he realizes that,I should throw him away like a garbage, just like the way he made me feel. I'm so mean huh? But that's just exactly what I'm gonna do.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
ahah no toni^^ you are not so mean^^ i guess that you would just feel so hurt and used that would feel too angry and would want to destroy him. i understand that you wouldnt want to waste your time with a stupid. and he made you waste time. so is normal that now you wanted revenge. but really you shouldnt waste your time revenging of a guy that didnt care for you. you should find one that really cared^^
@keithleenm (51)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
there was this one guy I dated when I was in highschool, I was around 16 years old and he was 18. We went out, dates movies, etc. but then I had to tell him that I dont really love him and I cant even make myself love him, my heart just wont beat. I knew I broke his heart--he calls every single day and sometimes he cries, it breaks my heart that I broke his heart, but I cant teach myself to love someone my heart and mind doesn't want to.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
yes^^ i understand you^^ you just went out with him to see if you could feel something^^ but isnt your fault if you couldnt^^ about him crying that shows that he really loved you but isnt your fault if you didnt feel the same way^^ we cant choose who we will love^^ at least you were honest with him^^ so im sure that he appreciated your honesty^^ and in your case you didnt date him for fun^^ you wanted to give him a chance but you couldnt^^ you are a good girl^^ for sure you will find a great guy^^ you deserve it^^ and about the guy he also deserves a good girl bcs he also was sweet^^
and about the guy he also deserves a good girl bcs he also was sweet^^ 
@jugsjugs (12967)
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29 Oct 10
When i was younger i use to work in a factory,there were always people that would go out as groups aswell as just going out as a dare with a person,mainly the people that had a bad reputation though.I was dared to go out with a man and we ended up getting married and having two daughters,then we ended up getting a divorce.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
29 Oct 10
you had a bad reputation? why? 
sorry for that :( anyway you ended up marrying him thats good^^ and had two daughters^^ but sorry that you got divorced then :( what happened? did he hurt you? anyway i wish that you are ok now^^ and that you find a good guy that loves you^^ also i wish that even with the divorce you get along well with your ex hubby^^ thats important bcs you both have two daughters so if get along well is better^^ thanks for share with me^^ have a good day^^ 
sorry for that :( anyway you ended up marrying him thats good^^ and had two daughters^^ but sorry that you got divorced then :( what happened? did he hurt you? anyway i wish that you are ok now^^ and that you find a good guy that loves you^^ also i wish that even with the divorce you get along well with your ex hubby^^ thats important bcs you both have two daughters so if get along well is better^^ thanks for share with me^^ have a good day^^ 