So, Are we really Friends?

If it annoys to you, then do it immediately. Care friends who really care you.

Yes, it does sound fair. I don't make discussions except on the week ends when people are more active and I seem to get more responses. If you aren't getting responses and the people that aren't active should be taken off. That is what I do as well. Alot of these people are just trying to get referrals to other sites anyway!!

I don't know if it's fair. It depends on what you are comfortable with. I haven't been on mylot for a very long time now. I keep popping in sometimes but I wasn't regular as earlier. And even when I was regular, I am more of a responder than a discussion starter.Compared to many other friends, I've started very few discussions. But there might be others who start their own discussions (which you might be interested in) but they might find your interesting enough to respond to. A possibility, isn't it?

Yessssss we're really friends!! LOL Don't feel bad about shortening your friends list for we've all had to do it at one point or another. Gosh, I did mine a few months ago, deleted all the inactive ones and kept all the others INCLUDING YOU!! lol Like you, hopefully I made no mistakes.....

HI BON, I don't blame u one bit for doing that. After u said that i went through & deleted a bunch to. I also need to do some more. I don't know why people want to be your friend & then u never hear from them again. I think it's pretty aggravating. Happy weekend to u. Hugs.

Well I sure hope you don't drop me. I rarely start any discussions, I guess I just enjoy responding to them more. I know at times I don't respond to all of my friend's discussions because either (1) I can't relate to it. They may be discussing something that I know nothing about, therefore can't really contribute to it or (2) if I am late in responding (say a few days), the only input I can give is something that several other people have already said. I guess it all depends how backed up I am. These days I can't even keep up with the discussions of my friends, let alone any other ones that I might want to comment one. In any event, I think you way of managing your friend list is fair.

Only got a couple minutes but wanted to stop by and say hello. You are more fair then I was cause I just did it and didn't say anything. Only kept a few. Gott to get my assignment done, today at 1 my daughter is haveing a birthday dinner for me. Hope to have it done before then. happy days to you.

Hi bunnybon7, My first day here again I m not sure how to really choose friends here. Last time when I was active, I kept all my friends. Whether they responded to my discussion or not, I kept them there on my friends list. It s so hard to decide which friends I should keep and which I should delete This time around, I am thinking of responding to discussions actively and less (or maybe not at all) creating new discussion. I m very busy with my work and so, I can't be here most of the time. So, are we still friends if I just respond once in a blue moon?

For me...it is FAR to much work to keep track of who does or doesn't do this or that. I'll answer those I want to, or have reason to or those that have asked about something I know/talk about and can intelligently respond to. I go to "new user" often and just comment to those. I go to other interests and find something I want to talk about. If the person ends up being intelligent and using MyLot intelligently I'll do the friend thing. But still... if I had to say I track something.. I'd have to say it was discussions more than friends. NOthing against friends, but I have some friends that never respond or post and others that haven't been marked as friends, yet we both chat back and forth on several topics.

Sounds fair to me, as you can probably see, I don't start very many discussions, I've tried in the past and they just don't go anywhere. Everytime I think of one that I think may be interesting, only 2 or 3 ppl will respond and that gets discouraging, so I mainly just stick to responding to discussions, its more fun for me. I still need to work on my list, I have pages and pages of them, and I only get discussions by 4 or 5 of the same ones all the time. Either everybody else is asleep or not on here anymore..lol.

I rarely start discussions, but love responding to them. Hope you don't delete me....sniffle.

Hello bunnybon, am sorry if i can't respond to you're discussions all the time. I can explain,am actually "SLOW" in posting now a days. but not because of me, because of the internet. i downgrade the subscription that instead of 2 megabyte speed it has reduced to 899 something. so, as the internet slowed down,probably so am i.

It sounds perfectly fair to me. I've not taken the time to pare down my friend's list, but there are a lot of times that I think that is something that I need to do. I notice that with every discussion that I start (and I really haven't started a discussion in a while because I've been busy with my real life) there are about 10-15 friends that will respond to the discussions and then there are people that stumble into the discussions that I've started as well. Maybe if I ever get to the point that I can hit my goals in the course of a day I will be able to pare down my friend's list as well.

friends are the most important persons.we can share everything.good friends are true with us.according to me friends are the God's gift.i miss my friends,i have no friends now

I think it is up to you to keep whatever friends you want and to delete them too if you want. I always try to respond to a discussion if I have something to say about the thread. But I don't always have something worthwhile to say. All my friends are on e-mail notification when they start discussions, so I always reply if I can, but this is not always possible. I rarely start any of my own discussions these days because my friend list has grown so long! It sounds very fair what you are doing. _Derek

If you are like me and spend alot of time responding to discussions your friends have started then yeah I understand. This is why I'm kinda choosey about my "friends" I respond to most of their posts but I don't want a "friend" whom does not post to my discussions nor starts any discussions that are of no interest to me either.

Hi bunny! I'm sorry that I don't make discussions! I'll try to think one up just for you!lol I just happen to prefer responding. I just never can come up with a topic that I think anyone would like. For some reason when I try to think of one I just go blank. I also have about 24 pages of "friends" and I know that there a some that haven't been around in quite awhile, but I just leave them there anyway. But, right now I am still getting requests from "friend collectors" who just want referrals and I have left them "hanging"! When I do start the very few discussions there a many of my "friends" that don't respond too, but I just respond to those friends whose discussions I like and who I find interesting!

Hi Bunnybon7!. Are we friend, I asking you back?. I think its not about word but action. I think you can do what ever you want its your friend list any way not mine. I usually just answer discussion I capable to answer if not I will not answer it because its will made others confuse with my response.

Well I have only been a member now this is my 5th month. I have to admit that my friends list increases on a daily basis. I really have never deleted anyone as none of them seem to be bothering me. So to have them there for me at least I do not see any harm. The ones I need to PM per say I sort of know what page they are located on. But I agree with you if they do not respond to your discussions than there is no point in keeping them there. Maybe one day I will sit and re-examine my list but for now I do not see any need for me.

well i think you should not rush things...take one step at a time... that's the best way to attain something or achieve something.... maybe there are reasons why those friends weren't able to comment or respond to discussions..some maybe new or else busy..you'll never know the ones you removed will give you the help you needed in due time :)