is a real love real?
By vucina1234
@vucina1234 (73)
October 29, 2010 3:28pm CST
is there real love? i mean is it really possible to love someone for whole life i am still young and i havent been in a long relationship,my longest relationship was 3 months we seperated because we noticed that we get bored to each other ,so i cant imagine being with someone for 30 ,40 or more years ,how people dont get bored being with same person for that long how is possible to actually love someone for that long?
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@ManastheMatrix (1007)
• India
29 Oct 10
there is no such thing is real love or unreal love, if it is not real, it is not love.
what u had 4 three months is fling not love. no offense..
in love, no one gets bored in true sense.love gets more deeper.love is not about just having fun times n happy times.. its about sharing , understanding, relation ships, loyalty trust.. n knowing each other to make things run smooth.
but its pity, my 1st love lasted 2years, 2nd lasted 1years n now i m worry it ended coz it been 6 months n just now before we argued over a topic called understanding in relationships.
So i don't believe in love anymore.but first two times we never get bored n we dint leave each other. its just things didnt work out 4 us.
@vucina1234 (73)
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29 Oct 10
wow your first love lasted for 2yrs .......how old where you then and how old you are now if i may ask... i know love is not just about having fun and its also about sharing and understanding...but i didnt feel something like that yet probably because i am still to young
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@ManastheMatrix (1007)
• India
29 Oct 10
yaa u r too young. so i say u have lot life to see.. and U will feel the essence of a love soon.. u will automatically know that u r missing someone..
u know here, when we were changing diapers at that age, school guys n gals are getting in love, make ups n break ups..but who to say.thy say cant we love coz we are in school? hehe.. so see how hurry. but i wanna say be careful n know what is love n what is not.. coz when unsuccessful it mostly hurt both else at-least one get hurted which i dot want 4 anyone...this may b not in your case ..coz i didnt see any sad part which is rather god in a way..
and now i am 25+
i started loving since school at 9th class i guess n kept it running until i met her just at final year degree level course. i was that time 22.
if u r little plz be good n careful. dnt mind.
@ManastheMatrix (1007)
• India
29 Oct 10
and yes by time u will get matured n will know how things run in life.
