Which hurts much your love left finding new love or a friend left for a love...?

Losing the one you love because he found someone new would be the most painful thing to happen in one's life. Loving a person is a decision I can only make and no one could ever dictate me whom I should and should not love. Even my very own parents has nothing to say about this choice to love someone. It would also be painful to lose a friend but, if your friend is happy with their relationships, you must accept that. A friend must be supportive and always there to comfort when needed. No matter how bad or unlikable their partners maybe, friends never have the right to interfere. It's unlikely to ruin friendship just because you can't let go. It's not right. If you happen to love someone, you wouldn't allow others to come in your way, too. Hope this helps. ^_^

It would be my lover who'll leave me for a new one because there was a special bond between us. It's ok for a friend to choose a new love over me. At least we are just friends and friends do what a friend tells them to do. So, love is much painful.

Losing a relationship is hurtful no matter what you do. I would be wounded deeply if i lost a friend because of their romantic life. i would be crushed and devastated if the one i loved left me for another. It would be so hard to take and go on.