how's your one year child old doing?
@inday_lorna1970 (1268)
United States
October 29, 2010 5:54pm CST
I wonder how's your one year child doing?? I know that kids are different from each other. But I am worrying of my one year old, he is not interested to read books anymore since he start walking, he is more into everything inside the house..emptying our ground cabinet pulling out all our pots and pans and makes noise banging it. turning our garbage can upside down..pulling our kitchen broom and trying to sweep the floor..etc..every time I bring him to our living room where we read books he will just look at it for a few seconds then take off.
I bought new books different from what we already read but he still not interested to read..ugghhh! he would rather watch DORA, team umizoome, diego, miss sunny spider..that's all he watch after that he goes anywhere in the house..how can I bring him back to reading the books..? can you share ideas, thanks!
9 responses
@RebeccaScarlett (2532)
• Canada
30 Oct 10
He sounds very, very normal! A one year old is learning about how the world works. To you, it looks like he is making a mess with the garbage can, but he is learning about gravity!
I agree that stories at bedtime, when he is calming down, would be best. During the day, let him explore and burn off that toddler energy, as long as he is safe!
@RebeccaScarlett (2532)
• Canada
30 Oct 10
It's great that you are trying to instill a love of reading at an early age. There should be more parents like you!
@inday_lorna1970 (1268)
• United States
1 Nov 10
Yeah when the garbage is out of the can he said: eewwwww! mamamama..lol! then he will stand up and get the broom and sweep it but he just scattered it anywhere..
before he learn to walk, we always sit down in the living room and read books, then he will crawl anywhere he likes until he learn how to walk.
Now I am teaching him how to put back things on it's place and how to put lotion on his arm and leg after taking a bath..but then he always wipe it on his head..
@ktvn11 (62)
• Thailand
5 Nov 10
my doughter is 2-year old and she can walk alone, event she run very fast but sometime I still care of her when she run to the road, go up and down to stairs without aware of dangerous, she is able eat by herself but very lazy to eat. she is able talk but some words, she can hold some toys and play with it, she can watch TV and immitate actions of them.
@inday_lorna1970 (1268)
• United States
6 Nov 10
But you still need to find ways for her to eat or else she won't get good nourishment!
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
1 Nov 10
All children are different it would seem. I believe that most one year old children are busy little ones enjoying taking foot steps and exploring everything they can land their hands on. My disabled toddler son has a drum that he enjoys playing with. My 16 month old daughter is fast moving and into everything. I have to guide her gently to make sure she is safe and happy. I am pleased to say that she enjoys holding and me reading picture books. I have put a book case in her bedroom. Some young boys are not keen on books until they are a bit older. I suggest reading your son a lovely story each night before he goes to sleep. I think a open the flap book would be engaging for your son. Board books with holes in are very tactile books. Good luck with letting your son enjoy literature.
@inday_lorna1970 (1268)
• United States
4 Nov 10
oh you do have disabled son? what happened to him? accident or inborn? I am happy to hear that he likes to play drum..my baby used our pots as his drum he would turn it upside down and beat it with spoons..Lol!
@ktvn11 (62)
• Thailand
30 Oct 10
my doughter is one year old and she knows do the sames as other people does. E.g she open the board, hold the chopstick and spoon, eat meat by hand, and cry when other people argument. she start step into strange world which teach her helpful things when she growup. I love my daughter and proud of her.
@inday_lorna1970 (1268)
• United States
1 Nov 10
they are one of the luckiest kids in this world nowadays for having us their parents because they have all the love and care compare to other kids that are being abandoned etc..
@angelicareomacampo (22)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
do not worry about your child too much. instead, worry about yourself worrying too much about him because without you being aware of it, you might have been "forcing" your child to experience things he is not yet ready to learn. there is no harm in watching tv because graphic or visual representations are proven helpful to learning and these shows are educational. you just have to insist a schedule or try to plan your day by creating various activities that includes harnessing his social skill, values, fitness, and health. further, i suggest that you read some books about parental psychology that are also available online. kids act according to their cognitive and physiological capabilities. there are age brackets for every skill or attitude that they may possess. just relax and be considerate. try positive reinforcement and the encouraging style rather than the authoritative pressure. we cannot expect our children to think according to our priorities or values yet. it took us a good couple of years to form it. breathe and try to remember what you were fond of doing when you were his age. this may help you understand your son better. :)
@inday_lorna1970 (1268)
• United States
1 Nov 10
great thanks I love your suggestions, I bet you are a good parenting counselor. I guess you are right, I teach all things to him that he need to learn but never thought he is just one year old. Am I mean to him..? but my point is, the earlier I show tons of things to him he might remember all these things which will be easier for him to do it as he grow older..
@bredwine2 (29)
• United States
6 Nov 10
My son is 15 months old and when he started walking he stoped having iinterest in a lot of things he liked when he was just crawling.I think that when children start walking its like a whole new world and at new hieghts.They have some much more reach and more interest in things going on around them.What I did for my son was but his books in his toy box in his room and when he starts playing with it thats when we read.I would not worry about this much tho since the baby is still only an year old as your child gets older I think that they will take more interst in books and reading right now its just all about being on the go.
@inday_lorna1970 (1268)
• United States
8 Nov 10
oh okey thanks..so I no need to worry about it much! yeah I am really trying to read him a book during the day when he doesn't want to watch TV. I do play with him a lot of time..!
@TheAdvocate (2392)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
Boys are very active and prefer to poke around. There's nothing wrong with exploring, and I generally let my nephew poke and pull stuff around as he is developing his strength at this age. We just make sure that he does not have an accident doing this and so we all keep an eye on him. He does like to sing and dance and so I get him books which I read to him. He likes the ones with well-known songs and he would listen intently while I sing "the wheels of the bus go up and down..." to him. I think you should find out what he likes. Besides, he is a year old and I am sure he cannot read yet. You have to spend time with him, pointing out the drawings, reading to him.
@inday_lorna1970 (1268)
• United States
1 Nov 10
Yeah I do spend my time with him that's why I did not work because I think we as parents were the kids should learn everything first before you can let them go.! maybe I should take it easy..I might be pushing all things for him to learn...
@enthusiasticone (348)
• China
30 Oct 10
wow. dear friend . so envy you . and i have not have a child till now. but i want to have one with my girlfriend. but i don't know how to care a child . and i am so young here. and is not so ready for this. but i will try to find better ways to be a better father in the future. thank you for your subject for studying more .
@inday_lorna1970 (1268)
• United States
1 Nov 10
I am just like you before and being a first time mommy it just came out naturally that you will learn how to take care of the baby but I am not perfect, that's why I post this question to learn from our experienced mylotter parents..
@mrsXsmiler (56)
•
30 Oct 10
All children are different, id say at only 1 there is really no rush to get your child into books. Maybe get him into the habbit by reading a book with him at night. You can point to the pages and make funny sounds to get him really interested. And in the day time if he only wants to watch tv dont turn it on. And kids of that age do love to run around the house and not sit still to read a book. Its still very early so i wouldnt worry much. He has the rest of his life to read a book. Books with sounds, textures and bright colours are a really good read for kids.
Hope this helps x
@inday_lorna1970 (1268)
• United States
1 Nov 10
thanks it really makes me feel good. he already know how to turn on Tv without teaching him..at first, just anyhow press anything there I thought he is just curious about it. one day I wake up the TV is on. when he is done watching the show he turn it off..If I change the channel he will cry.and said: mamamamamamaa!!!!!lol!
I bought new animal books that when you press on it the sounds came out of the animal he press.!