What are the common issues a woman faces in a relationship?

When there is a mismatch between any expectation and fulfilment in a relationship, problems arise and the smallest of issues would become unsurmountable.It can be anything.Mutual respect and a desire to 'live and let live' are the keys of success in a relationship.Whatever you have mentioned arise when these are not there. Other accompanying issues can be insecurity, desire to control[ it can be from any partner],domination,financial manipulations,running down a partner's siblings or parents,contempt, playing games to suit oneself, lack of straightforwardness and there may be any number.

I had to loose so many thing to get a marriage life. 1. My dream teaching job. 2. My talents 3. My huge friend circle ( as I have to leave the country.) 4. My parents (" " " " " " ) 5. My mother language skill ( " ) 6. MY sleeps 7. My freedom 8. My total 'I' But I am sure that my husband loose nothing for his marriage life. he always complains: after my arrival he lost all of his girl friends. I am so happy for what he lost for his marriage.

I think, women faces more issues than men. The women may face the issues more complicated than the men. Men do not understand that women sacrifices more and adjusts more than the men does.Men seem to ignore and does not appreciate what women does for them and for the common good of the family. If a husband cannot provide for his family, the wife finds ways even if it is contrary to her will.

Another thing is having children. You could want them and your partner may not! Or you may not and your partner Wants them desperately. Or You both want them but not at the same time. Her Bio clock is ticking and you are not ready or the guy wants them now and she wants to wait. The lose of freedom only happens if you marry in my view. I know married couple where Neither lost Any of these. Me? i won't marry my guy and I still have my freedom , he doesn't abuse me, and I still work. So it Is possible to have a relationship and time for friends and your work. The key thing is to be with someone who understands that you need your space , your own friends , a job you love,etc.Each couple need to tell each other what they really need. And Hear them. Not think They say this now but.... but Nothing. Trying to change someone Never works.

women gave birth we get ugly in time, and during pregnancy we pity ourselves during those moments.. we have to be a good wife, mom, companion and supporter to everything that a family is having an issue with..

I think, if the feeling is mutual and the couple share equal responsibilities, there is no so-called ISSUES. I do believe that something is so had to do when it is not done wholeheartedly. Working for the family to support them is not just a responsibility but a natural thing a man should do when he's in a relationship/married. Managing the house and taking care of children or working hard to back up a husband in the finances will never seem to feel like an obligation when one thinks that it is a natural thing a woman should do as a wife and as a mother, It always take 2 to tango. One can't dance alone when The Tango music starts to play. and mind you! It's always a man and a woman. ^_^

Women face in-laws problem, both Mother-in-law and sister-in-law, whereas a man does not. If the girl is bold, she will keep them under control. If she is timid, then she has to suffer silently. Most of the men follow the proceedure of let the fox go right or left, let it not fall on me. Hence they will come home late in the night allowing the lady to suffer everything to herself. Evenif she complains to him, he will simply say bear with it, all women are facing this, what is big for you etc. etc. Any argument takes place too, he will simply go out. Can a lady go out like that?

I think when it comes to preserving a commitment, both should make certain sacrifices. It's very much unfair if the woman is the only one who's sacrificing her happiness and leisure or vice versa.

hello dear anna, Once you entered in a relationship you should be aware of what you are going to miss. So,whoever thinks that a relationship is a "bed of roses" think twice "roses do have thorns" ,you might be pricked,get annoyed and irritated. Same thing in a relationship,consider all the do's and don'ts Happy Sunday dear anna

Hi sweetie. I personally don't think men or women really loose anything when getting married. It is a choice they made together and both knew what they will loose or have to give up to make that marriage successful. If it's a relationship of any abuse at all, the abused one should make sure to get out of that relationship or marriage immediately. RIGHT? TATA.

Hi anna, if both the partners be like friends then i think we need to feel that we are loosing some thing or we have problems in the relationship. If there is no proper understanding and amicability or intimacy or compromise then everything will seems to be a problem or we may not adjust. In the relationship i feel they are assets to each other. Of course women will loose her charm because of the work, pregnancy, deliveries etc., And she will be busy in her work for the family so no time to spend for her as like me. I want to study so i am continuing my studies but also i want to do job but i can't (recently i selected for a job but i didn't go, because my family members doesn't want me to send for a job) there is some scarifies a women will do for the sake of family. But i feel it is also a happiest one because we do for the family anything. Have a nice day/night anna.

Let me see: 1. He is not good in bed 2. He turns out a lazy guy 3. He does not have an ambition 4. He is not romantic 5. He does not respect his wife 6. He is stingy 7. He does not compromise 8. He does not love enough 9. He cares more of his family (parents and siblings) 10. He is not an honest guy Enough for today.

I feel the most issue a couple faces while in a relationship is the fact that neither fully agree from the beginning that neither will change who the other is. See when my boyfriend and I decided to live together I immediately said he could not change or attempt to change who I was and I would not him. Most couples do this but rush into too many responsibilities that later lead to so many obligations that neither is allowed to remember the early on agreement abut neither changing the other. For instance I can come and go as I please and so can my boyfriend but we get along so very well that we do things together and never feel that we cannot do what we please. We are very open with our communication and that my friend is the issue with couples today. Not communicating what they feel but rather sweep it for later and well later it is too late as situations escalate. It did take me years, even after a failed marriage to have what I have now, but let's just say that it was a lesson sort of a stepping stone into the wonderful relationship I have now. So to answer your discussion I have to say that many women lose their confidence which later leads to, too many emotional moments which ponder into destructive relationship.

In Thailand had a slang " Too much crazy in love will make people blind " Any relationship always never perfect for who. It will worth for some and some go crazy.... for me both men and women same issues but just different situation of status. That why some of people who broke up for they relationship and feel like don't want it any more said " Single is the best " Well, I agree for now ;p as I just divorced :D need to relax and want to have more time for myself and friends. Freedom is really important for who is never want to back in the badly relationship.... I said " for now, for while until I feel better and ready for a next love ;)"

I think in most cases it is verbal abuse, although physical is very apparent especially over here in the United Kingdom. I don't really see why people stick around, I know some hold onto love but some I see give as much as they get and their relationship appears to be based on violence + the ability to make up but I think these relationships are very wrong. Men, I don't know probably someone who uses things to get what they want. I.E spending money, bribing fathers of not being able to see the children they have.

I know witht he relationship I just got out of I faced a man who constantly verbally abused me, cornered in rooms and shoved me while he yelled at the top of his lungs for no reason and he even accused me of being crazy, psycho and untrusting when I confronted him about cheating on me.....he denied the cheating but I recently found 100% prof that my intuition was right and he was cheating in me with the person I pinpointed and heard he was cheating on me with,....no he is trying to get my apartment of me and all the contents of the house and is putting me out on the streets with nothing when he is the one who did the wrong......

An issue for many women can be the need to be ‘everything’ to everyone, in other words to ‘do it all’. In a lot of cases the man still expects the woman to take care of the home and the children and does not do a great deal to help in what is already a full time job. On top of that a woman may be expected to bring home a salary as well or to give up a career she is passionate about. It is so easy for women to experience a loss of self when they get married and have children. I know that for me in order to follow my passion I have to be up at 4 am every morning in order to fit everything into my day and that is can get tough after a while whereas my husband works fulltime after a good night’s sleep and relaxes when he gets home…

Hi Vijayanth!. I think from my observation woman do more task in marriage than men. How many do you see out there man who wiling to share a house work together with their wife, I think the answer will be not many. Most men don't have respect for wife especially if they stay at home mom. When they come home they expect to see clean house, good meal and great kids. When they had it they think its usual thing and not think thats require hard work.

insecurity and trust have always been the big issues for me in a relationship especially during the early stages of it. it takes a lot of effort for my partner to convince me to fully give in for the sake of our growth. reaction of family also towards my partner counts as a big issue too even if its not directly between us.

advantages of woman in a relationships are enormous.A shoulder to cry on,someone to confide on and in any case its the ideal situation