unconditional love

i believe that^^ bcs me even my bf almost dont have time for me i always dont want to let him go^^ but i feel sad. i dont think i can love him always if he continues to dont care back to me^^ he needs to care much to me too or else my love will start to decrease maybe. i dont want that to happen. but i really need his care also^^ cant be just me giving and giving always. i need to receive too^^ but i love in this kind of love that we just give but can end if you dont receive too bcs we are human and we need love too^^

If you want unconditional love in it's truest form get a dog. Once they know you care for them they will love you unconditionally. As for human beings? It is highly unlikely that you will ever encounter true unconditional love with another human being. We seem to be hard wired to think of ourselves first and then others. If that is so you can not have true unconditional love. What you can have however is love that will last no matter what. When we first meet we always put on our best behavior. So all you really see is what they want you to see. Once you really get to know that person, and that would include living with them, only then will you know if you can love no matter what. There are many couples who have this bond. It takes one major component for it to work. You must be very best friends first and then lovers. If you have that you come pretty close to unconditional love.

I have always believed - love is just part of life , not heart o life. Hence, love is certainly conditional , always.

Of course it exists! Anyone who knows God and has accepted Him as Saviour and Lord is aware that His love is unconditional. None of us deserve to be loved, no matter how good we are. There is always something dark in our personalities, so we can't go around boasting about how perfect we are and such. God loves us in spite of everything wrong we have every done. And he expects nothing in return for that. Our obedience to him and our loyalty is the fruit of that unconditional love. We don't do good deeds to be loved, rather, we are loved that's why we do good things. :D

They are so rare moments when we leave the heart to speak of reason instead of stereotyping and alienated impregnated masks. We all think we understand the meaning of unconditional love. " That's still just an expression ... one of the many clichés that help to enrich speech in front of friends. Thinking about those times when I launched myself into heated discussions about it. It seemed to me as I highlight an issue such depth and femininity and were very proud when I managed to turn my ideas via words. I wish I can now look in the eye and let the energy that exudes spontaneously - pure energy, unaltered, only purtataore authentic feelings - talk to me. In words one can say about it: Love does not judge and do not try to change, accept and love cherishes. The opposite of love is fear. Distrust arising from fear, justice, jealousy, envy. Despite appearances, the object of fear is never outside of ourselves ... We are afraid that we are not good enough, so is distrust that gradually turns into jealousy. We are afraid that if we choose to break our relationship, we lose that stability harrowing yet comfortable, so is the desire of change among us after the image we have of the ideal. We are afraid we will not be accepted for who we are, and we shape the personality in line with what we assume he expects from us. We are afraid of rejection, so more often than not have the courage to ask, but we resort to assumptions. How can we ask to be loved, accepted, when we do not accept ourselves? Surprise absurdity of this situation? We deny ourselves, we submit that the trial court of the psyche that we have formed while the role of self ... at one point only becomes a special voice, one that strikes the ruthless judge us and and others who condemn us again and again to a miserable existence. All judgments that apply to the other, they operate primarily on us! Like that form a value ... At some point in life, in many models of behavior that we offer, opt for one or another and we interorizam, repeat until it becomes part of us, our firecul. Once you become a valuable model loses its meaning, the initial motivation for watching. It remains an image that you add to the suite of issues, "should" and the height to which we constantly and desperately try to place our. At the same time we try to "measure" and others by the same principles. Naturally among the many images, some contradictory, we will be very hard to see the truth. And everything starts to fear. Courage is not what we see in movies ... superheroes go through fire and sword to save the little children and women in distress. Courage is your decision to look fear in their eyes and melt it with the flame of love, flame of God ....