Have you ever got offended for touching a girl??

India
November 1, 2010 5:10am CST
Well I have been offended for just holding her hand.2 days ago some guys were ragging a sweet fresher girl inside the collage.Being a final year student I have a responsibility to stop those acts in collage.So I did the same thing.I went there and stopped them.Then I snatched her hand and told her to go away to the class room.But the girl instead complained against me.She said to the collage management that I was holding her hand for some bad intentions. I was taken by a shock.I was warned by them.Its really embarrassing.I didn't expect that blow from her.How could she complained against me because I was only one to help her.
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15 responses
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
1 Nov 10
With regards to your title, no, I have never been offended for ever having any contact with a girl. In your narrative, it simply looked like the girl that you helped had the wrong impression. The end doesn't always justifies the means. That time, you looked like that one who was really the bad guy. You have to be careful another time around, people these days and those damsels in distress might give you more dilemmas than that of which you thought they were in (^_^")
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
1 Nov 10
Then again, if we know that we are right and the situation calls for us to take action, we might as well do what we can to help or assist anyone who seems to need help. As long as we know that what we did is right and at the end, things went well for the purpose of helping, our conscience are clean. Have a nice day yourself
• India
1 Nov 10
Yes we cannot resist ourselves to help anyone who deserve it.But it sometimes happen very quickly that you cannot really decide what you are doing is good or bad.So far your heart and conscience says you are right.Then there should not be any fear.
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• India
1 Nov 10
Yes you are cent percent right.The girl had a wrong impression on me.She thought I was equally involved in that case.Anyways its her sick mind.She needs some treatment for sure.But for my part I am now more cautious.I am trying to behave more maturely.Anyways it has helped me in changing my behavior.Thanks for your concern.Have a nice day.
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• Philippines
1 Nov 10
It happens. You think you're doing the right thing but instead you get dissed. Best thing to do is to just handle the situation maturely: use the middle finger. :)
• India
1 Nov 10
Ye you are right I am already using my mature sense that is middle finger.I have created a very worse situation for her.She is being teased and ragged every now and then.Nobody is coming forward to help her.I am enjoying that.
@mhypie03 (683)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
I had a laugh on your post frontvisions! Such a big LOL!
@toniganzon (72532)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
Pretty sure there was a misunderstanding. Some girls do take offense when they are being touched even if it was not a malicious one. Those type of people are very sensitive or had a bad experience in the past. So it won't matter much to them what the intention of the other person was in doing so. Their minds immediately go blank the moment they are touched. Charge it to experience and let it go.
• India
2 Nov 10
I think you are completely right.Those mental sickness is more often seen in girls who have bad experience in the past.But by complaining to the management she has already made her life much more worse in the collage.She has already got targeted.She is being teased by seniors and also ragged.But no one comes forward to help her.Thisis really misery situation for her.Anyways I have already forgiven her for that.I don't want to make myself enemy with her.
@rijovjohn (428)
• India
2 Nov 10
I had no such experience yet,thanks god. But i really feel sorry about you. After all helping some one and still you become the one who do the fault. May be that girl like the ragging. I still cant understand why she complained. Any way, if it was me i wouldn't have helped when students from our year ragging a junior student.Also why did you hold her hand. There was no need for that. Ypou can just tell her to go to class..
• India
2 Nov 10
Yes it was a big mistake from my part.I should not have hold her hand.It happened in a flash.There was no bad intention behind that.But it wasn't that critical thing to make it a issue.The Girl from 1 st year is sick.If she cannot recognize who is good or bad.Then she deserves ragging.
@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 10
Yes, actually it is not allowed in my country to touch a girl who you dont know or is not your friend r relative, so you ll always be offended, otherwise if you did then prepare for punishment.. But the punishment after this looks cool lolz Have a nice day
• India
2 Nov 10
Well it is also not allowed in my country.But the situation wasn't that critical as you are thinking.She needed a help during that time.I came forward to help her.I stopped all those who were ragging her then I hold her hand to make her aside.Then I told her to get back to class room.I still feel that I haven't done anything wrong.That is why God also saved me when I was blamed.
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
Nope I haven't offended a girl when I touched a girl because most of the girls like it.lol
• India
2 Nov 10
I think you have misread my discussion.Anyways girls do like these things.I agree but not always in every situation.They like it only when they are comfortable with you.So don't try it more often otherwise your situation will be much more worse than me.Have a nice day.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
1 Nov 10
I am shocked to hear your story. Is kindness never repay by kindness? :(
• India
1 Nov 10
Yes kindness never repay kindness at least not with me.That was my bad day and a nightmare for me.I will forget it as soon as possible.
@myl999 (2093)
• India
1 Nov 10
hey if exactly that happened what you said than you must know that there are many kinds of girls are out there, and many of them like being teased that way some nourish the feeling that they are beautiful that is why people tease them,but if that girl complained against you without thanking you than she did not deserved your attention.. so nothing to worry just forget the incident as a thing of the past some time good deeds do negative results this time its you..I can remember one incident when I was coming from my college on a rainy day and on a lonely way some of those road side romeos where chasing a girl and I confronted them though I was alone and they were many but they failed before my confidence and left the scene..and the girl went not even thanking and not even giving me a secondary look...I just remember these moments because they made me wiser everytime....it happened...so its ok..do not think much about it....
• India
1 Nov 10
Now the situation is even worse for her.She got targeted now.She is being ragged every now and then and no final year students are helping her.I think she might be realizing that.Anyways she deserves that.What a cheap girl she is.I am lucky enough to get escaped only with a warning from the collage management.Since I was not having any previous such records of teasing a girl otherwise things could have been much more worse.
@picjim (3002)
• India
1 Nov 10
That was petty and mean on her part.If she continues to be ragged then she has only herself to be blamed.It is difficult to deal with such people.When they can't discriminate between good and bad they deserve what they get.When we take action to prevent a greater evil from being done and if the person who is being rescued from dire straits doesn't give adequate importance to it then she has to face the consequences.
• India
1 Nov 10
Yes it is indeed very difficult to handle such peoples.She deserves what she is getting now.Its really pity that she has got no one to help her.All the students are calling her complain box.I think she is mentally sick.Anyways thanks for coming up with those wonderful words.Have a nice day.
@msdivkar (23359)
• India
1 Nov 10
That was pretty mean on the part of that girl savrav. She might have been confused and taken you to be one of the ragging party. Thank god I never had to face such an ignominy in my life.
• India
1 Nov 10
Yes you are right.She has taken me to be the head of that ragging party.She only complained against me. But she is now under huge trouble.She is already been targeted.She is now been ragged by many of my friends and also 3rd year students.But no one is helping her.I am enjoying that.I am sure she also might be realizing that.
@gahoi1785 (121)
• Philippines
1 Nov 10
hi saura, good thing, no horror story for me. so far. haha happy mylotting. :-)
• India
1 Nov 10
So Mr Gahoi.It seems you are enjoying right.Well try to keep your self in my condition.then you will know how embarrassing it is. Anyway thanks for showing your happy mood.Sorry I don't have any horrifying story for you other than this.Happy lotting
@funkykid (441)
• India
1 Nov 10
thats a really intresting incident you have shared with us.may be the girl tok it by mistake that you were also part of those who where ragging her and just trying to make good impressing towars her so you were just acting like that in front of those students.most of the seniors do it with intention believe me.but its the sad part that you tried to honesly helped her but still she misunderstood you.she may understand you later when she becmes familiar with yur backgrund in college dnt worry mate :) Happy mylotting :D
• India
1 Nov 10
Yes you are right.she said the same thing to the collage management.She said that every thing was planned starting from the moment she was being ragged and also to the moment when I hold her hand. Now she is being ragged every now and then.She even cannot complain every time because this will create more enemies. No one from final year is helping her after that incident.I think she might be realizing that.
• India
1 Nov 10
yes brother i agree with you completely...even this happened with me as well but not your case ofcourse... right now i am in the final year...me and my school mate got into the engg. college and unknowingly we both tooked the admission into the same class...and in first year some of my friends teased my school mate..just because i will roam with my friends my school mate complaint to the management that even i was teasing her.i was like WTF!!!
• India
2 Nov 10
Ohh she might have misunderstood you.Why are you not trying to make your friend stop teasing her.Girls are very sick minded I do agree when it comes to suspicion.
@Yashasvi (229)
• Nepal
19 Nov 10
i have not such experience but my one friend has it.He was offended for touching a girl not intentionally but unintentionally.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
6 Nov 10
Girls are sensitive. Some girls just want to attract attention, and they like those attention. What appears to be a tense situation to us, is only a way to attract. While what u are doing, spoils the whole set up, especially when one of the guys ragging her happens to be the one she likes. By spoiling her set up, it's normal for her to be upset and that makes u the victim even though your intention is good.