i dont understand her!!

The betrayed person always suffer more than the betrayer. You see the betrayer doesn't give a care and that's why that person betrays. The one that is betrayed would probably not do such a thing because they care. I do however believe that there is a God who notices all the little details and teaches each one through negative and positive experiences and will eventually fix all things. From every experience that happens, always try to learn something that will make you a better person. This philosophy in life will eventually pay off big time.

With what you have shared... it seems that you've done your part already and don't feel stupid about it. Don't push yourself too much in trying to make her talk to you, it might turn things worst between you. Give yourself a break, time may not be right for any reconciliation.

That's how some friends are. You have to accept that. You are trying to be helpful so you good. You are sad because you expect response. Your friend is not that type. The best way is keep doing what you do and some day she will be responsible enough to respond.

Well, from the limited information that you have given above, it's quite difficult to tell who actually made a mistake. Sometimes in life we have to let go of expectations. We usually expect too much from our partner and when they don't live up to what we want, we get angry or hurt. It's normal to feel like this but we got to learn to be cool sometimes. Chill and think. Later you might be able to solve it. Good luck!

In the same boat dude, but then again isnt it hard to keep your cool sometimes?

you have to talk to her in personal not in text... to see the real score....

It is so normal to suffer. For a long time you had a particular type of expectation about a person and now all of this has been broken. You will suffer a bit, every day you will ask yourself this question, but it will get better with time. You did what you could do, nothing more, nothing less. Move on. Do something not to allow yourself to think of it, and move on. :)