did somebody say he loves you when you know each other at the first day?
By Libertywu
@Libertywu (136)
China
November 1, 2010 10:47am CST
I have experienced such thing. It happened last Saturaday. Some people i met the first time, and we had lunch and dinner at night, then KTV, when we back to home, he said to me that he loves me and found that i'm the girl he's fond of. At KTV, his another friend, who is younger than me, and said to me, he likes me. At the same day, same accasion, the first day to know both of two mens, they both said have feelings with me. What should i do? Although i have told to them i have my boyfriend. The man called me everyday and told me how much he missed me. The man is very successful in China. I think we are not in the same level. I'm not interested with his social status, his wealth, his gracious family background. I'm sure he is not suitable for me. Although i said to him that we are impossible. But he does not give up. What should i do? Please tell me. I'm confused.
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4 responses
@ferry2046 (146)
• China
2 Nov 10
well,I'm a big boy from suzhou,China.my suggestion is refusing the rich guy with no hesitation.there is an old saying"two lovers must have same families",which is quite right in nowadays.even he really loves you,if you accept the love,you shall live a quite different life,also do your families.however,those stories always end in sorrow. so clam down and have a deep thought.
@Libertywu (136)
• China
2 Nov 10
Hello, ferry, you are right. I should calm down. I refuesed him without any hesitation. I'm sure the fact that he and i is impossible.
@yanyanyow (326)
• Philippines
1 Nov 10
the first you need to do is that ask yourself if you love your boyfriend. if you really love your boyfriend, tell him whats happening to you so he can help you with your problem. the moment he knows what the china guy has been doing to you, he will take actions right away
@Libertywu (136)
• China
2 Nov 10
Hi, yanyan, of course, i'm sure that i love my BF and he loves me too. I don't wanna to hurt my BF. I have told that man that he and i is impossible. I refused him directly. But he still wanna to do something to move me.
@kerriisthebest (448)
• United States
1 Nov 10
I had a boyfriend a long time ago and he did that. We just got together and he's like oh by the way I love you, I was like wow this is moving a little fast. I told him not to say I love you so soon unless he really meant it and knew he loved me. The word I love you just goes around like its nothing sometimes. I belive that you should really have the feeling in your heart that you love the person before you say that word because I love you is a very strong word and it can break a lot of hearts sometimes.
@Libertywu (136)
• China
2 Nov 10
hi, kerri, first, thanks a lot to your reply. Really, you and your BF is so lucky. Because you have feeling for each other at your first sigt. But i don't have feelings to him. The feeling just belongs to normal friends. Wish you and your BF happy forever. Thanks
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
1 Nov 10
I have never heard i love you on the first day of meeting someone. if i did, i wouldn;t be so sure that I believed it. i love you doesn't come that easy.@Libertywu (136)
• China
2 Nov 10
Hi, really, when he said to me he cares me and loves me, i did not believe it. Really i think it was just impetuous feeling. But he calls me everyday and chats with me. This morning, he writs an article for me about love. Really i don't know how to refuse his cares and feelings.
