Are you a nagging partner?
By careguarden
@careguarden (5670)
Philippines
November 1, 2010 2:48pm CST
My brother told me that they (Men)didn't want to have a nagging partner or lover because their head always aching. That's why he gave me an advice that whatever happened in my love life, I always be calm so that the problem will automatically solve and not getting into worse. How about you?
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6 responses
@yellowhipon (793)
• Philippines
1 Nov 10
I'm never the nagger.One, because I know it pisses men, and two, because its not my nature. When I'm upset or fuming with anger, I usually am quiet. When I can't contain my anger, I usually cry. My hubby and I talk about things so we never get to the point of nagging at each other.
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@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
1 Nov 10
wow you are good partner yellowhipon. I can sense that your relationship with your partner are cool and okay because you always be calm and not even nagged your partner. Maybe, that's the best thing most women can do, cry cry so that the hurt aches fade away. you do the right thing because if you nag your partner there is the possibility that he might angry with you and sometimes he can slap you because if angerness. better to avoid happening like that.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead
Godbless
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@yellowhipon (793)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
thanks!see I'm lucky coz my husband is the type who never hurts women physically.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
Yeah, you are right yellowhipon. you better loved your husband as what your husband do so that your marriage will be successful and both of you lived happily ever after like what you promised in the church during your wedding.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead
Godbless
@simonelee (2715)
• China
2 Nov 10
Hi there. I'm a silent type person. I never nag my partner but being silent is also not good. When argument arises i don't speak to avoid conflict but it worsen cause my partner doesn't want to end the day without fixing the problem. My girlfriend nags but i zip my mouth and she gets irritated. There guys who nags more than us.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
Hello simonelee. Yeah, being a silent is not good because I remember before that I have a boyfriend who is very silent. I don't like my ex because when something wrong, he always keep quite and didn't say anything. That's the time I felt insulted and I want hear words from her but nothing. That's why, I will never accept those men who are courting me that is a silent person. I want to have a partner that tell me anything and if they are mad, felt angry just express it.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead
Godbless
@joey_matthews (8354)
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2 Nov 10
I think both me and my wife nag at each other at times when we get too stressed over something but we try our best not to as it doesn't solve anything does it. No ones perfect we know that and we all make mistakes but when it comes to talking to someone about things.... my wife has always been the person i can trust the most as it should be.
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@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
Hello joey. It's okay if sometimes the couple must nag but take note, not always. We can do mistakes in our life and we must know and overcome it right? Yeah, of all people in the world, you must be trust to your wife because it is the part of your life and no one can break it. Yeah, no one is perfect in this world. if we do something, we must let our partner about this so that they will able to forgive us and they will aware of it.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead
Godbless
@shaggin (72131)
• United States
17 Nov 10
I dont nag the guy that I'm seeing. I used to nag my ex though because if I didnt he would never do anything. I would have to nag him for hours just to get him to take the garbage out to the curb on garbage day. Yes I could have just done it myself but I did pretty much everything else myself so that was his job. There wasent much he had to do but to get him to do anything I would have to keep nagging him or he would never do it. It drove me nuts.
@Krizz420canada (531)
• Canada
1 Nov 10
I'm not the nagger in my relationship its my girlfriend. I only nag her when its totally necessary and when she needs to get things done but other then that shes the one always bossing and complaining usually.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
1 Nov 10
Hello Krizz. Yeah, you are right, almost in a relationships that the women are nagger most of the time because I believe the hersheys of the my ancestors that the woman have two mouth which is always talking and talking. and the study shows that the most talkative are the girls that's why we can expect that in a relationship most of the time the woman always nag. Before, I always nagging with my boyfriend every time I felt he is not telling the truth,but now, when I realized that it is not good in a relationship , I minimize it and try to be calm as I can.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead
Godbless
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@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
Hello jharia. Really? you are a nagger? Well, I can totally say that you must help yourself think first before nagging to your partner to avoid any circumstances that will end the relationships. Because not all the time our partner always forgive us and always understand us if we are always nagging without any valid reason. I know you can do that to quit nagging but not totally very easy. Just be patient and try to trust 100% to your partner and you can see that it works.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead
Godbless
