Friends that have changed drastically

One year after high school graduation, I saw an old classmate of mine. Before she was so innocent looking. But now, it's the opposite. She has multiple piercing on her face. What the hell happened to her. Maybe she had some bad influence along the way.

I have a friend like this. For a few years, we were the best of friends. It has only been recently she had been introduced to another friend's ex partner. Since the ex has been hanging around my friend I have noticed changes. Things like, she would text me every day. Now she doesn't. Even picking me up in the afternoon to go and pick up our girls from school. She hasn't done that for the last few weeks. Other things I have noticed, he leaves clothes at her place and she wears them because she can smell him. She had told me that the guy has feelings for her. She hasn't admitted it but with what she has been doing, I think she may have feelings for this guy. What makes the situation worse, she is married with kids. If things keep going the way they are, I feel that her marriage could be on the rocks. this has all been going on for the last few months. So you are not alone. My friend has changed too. I don't really like the person she is turning into.

I had a friend for years that i could trust,i would trust er with anything no matter what.Then one day i found out that she had changed and let me say she changed for te worst.Now i tend not to say anything to her at all,as that way she do not know anyting in order to say anything.

No, I think it happens to almost everyone. People change constantly over the course of their lives and sometimes this can be in a bad way, and sometimes in a good way. Unfortunately it can also affect friendships. It has happened to me several times, and it sucks, but I think it is part of life.

Do you believe in "nothing permanent here on earth"? Even relationship with a friends we cannot tell if it is forever, permanent or temporary. One thing only i know permanent is the love of God to us nothing else. Others like friend and other is like a wind blowing and you feel now then suddenly gone.. so go on select again another friends... see you around

Hey, no worries, you are not alone. :) I am currently going through a depression mode because one of my friend changed drastically. I mean, I notice that I can do nothing about it and if I try to tell my friend what I think, my friend will think that I am trying to judge and she'll play a victim mode. which is so annoying. she is currently hang out with a bunch of other ppl. I actually have no objection with that. But the thing is, she'll say she miss me and all when the fact is, to see me is literally just like few steps away. She will call me only if she need anything from me. Like last night, she called me and pestering me because she wanted to borrow my killer heels. I was not in the mood and knowing her, she'll only return it when the heels are broken and can't be use anymore. so far she ruined 2 of my fave wedges. I've learned my lesson, no? The most painful thing is, its not easy to let go. haiz. i hate this feeling and i feel like i just wanna disapear from her world forever.. no worries dear, you are not alone. :)