A Stranger Makes Me Happy

By Toni
@toniganzon (72554)
Philippines
November 2, 2010 6:56am CST
There's this one person that I talked to almost every day for 11 days now and he's been keeping me amused. Aside from my husband and son, he can keep me laughing all day. He makes me feel good about myself and would relate to me funny stories. We shared something in common including having our own families and how we keep our families intact and happy. What's so wonderful about what we share is that we share it with all honesty despite the fact that we haven't met each other personally. So today even if I'm in pain because of my monthly period, i'm still happy because of him.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
7 May 16
Always good to have a laugh :) sorry to here you have period pains
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
8 May 16
@toniganzon Glad the pain isn't that often any more.
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@toniganzon (72554)
• Philippines
8 May 16
@kevin1877uk i exercise lol
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@toniganzon (72554)
• Philippines
8 May 16
I don't get that pain often anymore. I used to be so lazy, no exercise for me hahaha. Just siting in front of my computer all day and all night.
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• India
2 Nov 10
Hello, This is the good thing about stranger isn't it? In such a relationship you don't share any responsibilities. It's totally carefree. You amuse each other and it's a symbiotic relationship. I also love to meet new people over internet. Some of them are totally depressing. But some of them always radiate positive energy all the time. Even from among strangers we need to be careful in choosing friends. A good friend, whether you meet him personally or not, can always make you feel good about yourself. Thanks. God bless you.
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@toniganzon (72554)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
Indeed it is a great pleasure to meet someone online or on the phone. You've said it well. I'm radiating too much positive energy today that I still keep smiling even as i'm writing this one! Thank you for making a comment my friend.
• Portugal
2 Nov 10
academic sorry for that you trusted that girl and suddenly you found out she wasnt like you thought. thats too sad really. yes is true that sometimes online some people hide their true colours but lets wish that this friend of toni is real one^^ she is too happy to know him and she deserves only good things^^ she is a wonderful person^^ also i wish that you academic didnt stop to trust people online^^ there are true people =) wish you find good friends only for now on^^
@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
10 May 16
@academic2 Good thing you were not lured into that Bangladesh heist :)
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
3 Nov 10
Obviously, this relationship has had a very good start. You find each other interesting and bring joy to each other. How long do you think the relationship will stay 'online'? How long before you decided to meet this man in person? Just curious.
@toniganzon (72554)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
I never considered or thought of how long this friendship will last because it's something that is unexpected. I don't count the days and i don't long for how long. I just want to enjoy the moment as long as it lasts and what's important to me is the friendship at the present time. There is no plan of meeting as this might change the way we see each other or our relationship.
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@vangie26 (445)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
It's good to hear that you share that in all honesty. Because once you started to feel that there is something developing aside from being happy together, then you should be aware, because you two have your own families right? Maybe you have found someone who can be your real good friend, in its truest meaning that's why you can laugh with though he is still a stranger.
@toniganzon (72554)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
Yes, we both know our limitations and we both love our families. I think that's why we share and laugh together because we have so many things in common. We have considered the thought of what would happen if we fall inlove but we both acknowledge the fact that we shouldn't allow that to happen. We don't want to ruin our friendship and it's the friendship that counts above else.
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@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
3 Nov 10
What a good thinkings, I really appreciate this. We at myLot are sharing our tensions and pains and are getting relief too from our friends, though most of them are stranger for us, we have not seen them in our real life, but we can feel their emotions about us, this is really very good thing, yes these strangers make our lives easier Thanks for sharing such a beautiful thoughts Be Happy and be the reason of happiness in others life...)
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@toniganzon (72554)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
It is indeed a pleasure to talk to someone without any hang ups. It's total freedom and I'm glad to share this to all of you!
@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
10 May 16
It amuses me and makes me "envious" how you are able to stir interest and so many comments and responses with a single Discussion :) There's also this other friend who has, more or less, the same "skill" as you. She's had many followers in the previous site I joined and like you, she writes so well too, being an English teacher. May the tribe of you both increase to inspire other people and help them (including me) as we improve and polish our English in the course of our exchanges of thought and minds with you.
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@toniganzon (72554)
• Philippines
10 May 16
I had quite a lot of followers and admirers in bubblews too. But I didn't stay long on that site. Too many men with strange ideas abused my kindness.
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@toniganzon (72554)
• Philippines
10 May 16
@sunrisefan Yep there were a lot of them there because bubblews was the highest paying site of that kind those days. Everybody wanted to make a lot of money online.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
10 May 16
@toniganzon And so many with English you could not understand. I'm not belittling though :)
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
I have a similar experience just a few days ago. I just logged into an instant messaging program after a long time and there was this person online. Since it had been a long time since I last logged into the program, I simply had no idea who this person was. How we got to know each other or how I got this user's ID on my list. I just sent a hello and from there, we got to know each other again and simply had a good time chatting, joking and so on as time went pass. Quite amusing. (^_^ )
@toniganzon (72554)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
I'm glad you could relate to this. It's really quite amusing and could take most of our time. It's really fun and it's like being free to be yourself!
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@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
Yeah, we both started with chatting in English as we both didn't know if we lived in different countries. Just laughed so much when we realized that we were in the same country and how we were struggling to chat in English (^_^") It was coincidence I guess since we got to talk during the holiday at a late hour when we were both not at work. Since we only know each other as being fun to chat with, I guess we'd always expect to enjoy each other's company every time we get to chat.
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• Portugal
2 Nov 10
toni thats so cute^^ is great to know that you met a guy online that makes you laugh much^^ is good that you can share personal things with other people too^^ is good to feel that we have someone that can cheer us up when we feel down^^ maybe someday you can even meet him in person and be good friends^^ for now i really wish that he continues being sweet to you^^ and that makes you happy^^ if you need anything im here also for you^^ any problem you have just share with me^^
• Portugal
3 Nov 10
yes thats true^^ we dont have afraid bcs we are not near them really. so i understand that you can tell him anything. also he wont judge you. but you need be careful only if you plan to meet that person near^^ otherwhise is all ok^^ sure you are old enough to know if someone is true or not but online sometimes isnt that easy. i tell you that bcs of a boy i met online. he wasnt what he seemed. he kept things from me and just later on i found out things. see you around too sweety friend^^
@toniganzon (72554)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
Thank you for being so nice and sweet too. It's nice to meet people online because you don't have any apprehensions, but it's true that we have to be cautious about that too. I think i'm old enough to know the difference between people who are real and people who aren't. SEe you around my friend!
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
3 Nov 10
if it's just a good friendship that's amazing there are people that we just meet online that has a lot of things in common and could be good friends
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
Is that a person a man or woman? I agree with you, but this case doesn't happen at all times. You should still be careful knowing that that the two of you haven't met already. We should be aware that there are a lot of people who are just "talk shi*s." What I mean is that they're only good at first, but during the latter part, some of them are going to "tilt." Still, I'm glad because you found this person who makes you happy. But still, be careful, and do not dwell to much on him/her.
@blesila (92)
3 Nov 10
hello toniganzon. it's nice to have that stranger. i have also a stranger that makes me happy but then my boyfriend get jealous and i cut off the communication we had. sigh. take care. GOD bless us.
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@olgiana (241)
• Mexico
3 Nov 10
who is this person? where have u met and and how do u keep in touch? ;)
@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
10 May 16
And I'm sure that friend would be flattered if he read your Discussion. Sometimes, it's better to open yourself up to a stranger (who has earned your trust of course) than a family relation. I say this because, from observation, most people would join certain religious groups and communities at the invitation of a friend rather than one from a brother or sister. Members of religious communities would sometimes be closer to their "brothers and sisters" in the community than their blood brothers or sisters.
@toniganzon (72554)
• Philippines
10 May 16
Spoken by a truly wise man. This old post of mine is coming alive again lol
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@toniganzon (72554)
• Philippines
10 May 16
@sunrisefan They abandoned you so I could devour you all to myself.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
10 May 16
@toniganzon Hahaha! Now you're thinking of me as a "wise"man. Those 3 guys out there left me and made their visit at Bethlehem.
@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
10 May 16
When you're past 40 you might miss that monthly period LOL! So enjoy it while it's here hahaha! But still, I hope the pain subsides and you enjoy your day. Glad you have that friend you enjoy having the day with :) Now with this comment I'd be mistaken again for a woman LOL!