How can you live with out you lover?

forgetting a love one is really hard to do... you can learn to live without your lover but you can never stop one's feeling from relinquishing the old feeling if given the chance to re-unite.

well, i had already experienced it woth my ex boyfriend. me and my exboyfriend has to forget our love, because of his cruel mother. first, it was difficult to me to forget him. i cried all the time. but after few momths, i realized that there are so many people love me, and even there are a lot of boys who gave me attention during my sadness period. so i decided to forget that bad experience and try to move forward. and yes, it is possible to forget it, because i dont have any feeling about it again. i dont even respect my exboyfriend. because now i can tell that only a coward will do such thing and afraid of his mother eventhough he was 25 years old that time. but i have another experience too, when i was in love with a boy who has lung cancer. it was full of pain when i was forced to leave him, and dissapeared from his life. but i have to do it, eventhough it hurted me deeply inside. but i can made it. i can live without them, and live my life with m recent boyfriend. you can face your problem, no matter what it is. no mtter how painfull it is. dont hurt your self. and always pray to God.

its not that I cant live without him... but i just cant stop caring and thinking how is he and all that thoughtful stuff... I just love him much!

No, I cannot live for long time without my love and this situation is really very hard, I cannot imagine this situation. I suffered from it one time and when my gf went for exam for one day and I know how much I was disturbed...

It"s all ways hard to forget the love but its always easy to remember the love and lover. There can never be a right way to behave when situations like these arise, all one can do is accept this process of being human. What i have learnt and I'm not saying this is right for everyone, but like most things in life we need to grieve and grieve i do. I let the feelings take their course. I let the passion of missing run through me. I try to shake off the intoxicating craving for that love which my lover invoked. And through this entire ritual i constantly discourage myself not to feel those feelings but in the end, I survive.

the first thing you will going to ask is this, "Is this a true love?" Because nowadays, people are claiming that what they feel is a LOVE but in fact it was not. It's just a mere human emotion. Real love is stated in the bible specifically in 1 Corinthians 13 which state that "If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal..." and it says in the verse 4 that "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no records of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres" and on the verse 8 says that "Love never FAILS..." By that TRUTH, you can answer now your questions. Lovers will never forget their love. If there's any negative circumstances that will come, lovers will never be shaken for the bible says that LOVE NEVER FAILS...... would you like to ask "HOW CAN YOU KNOW IF WHAT YOU FEEL IS A TRUE LOVE?"

After the break up of a lover we must learn to allow time to heal our achy hearts. There is no way around this as we are humans and although things did not work out with our partner doesn't mean we forget and leave all completely behind. With time you lessen the thoughts but sure sometimes you can dwell and still have feelings but outside of time and or another love interest there is nothing we can do to instantly forget.

if you love someone is hard to live without him or her. but if the person doesnt love you anymore you have to accept that. if loves you and wants to let go and you love also dont let that. if both are in love shouldnt be apart.. unless there is no more love. if your lover didnt love you anymore sure you have to let go wanting or not bcs you cant force him to love you but if he loves you you shouldnt let go^^ you should tell him that you both can solve things^^ love is fight also^^ you should always fight if there is love in both sides. but if is only you just means that that guy wasnt the right for you.. so you need to find a new one^^ the one for you^^

I forgot how to love before. I don't like to be hurt again that's why I let my heart be numb. Today, I am doing it again. It's sad to feel pain. I don't want to be left again. I am the person who keeps holding on but guys just want to let me go. I don't know what's wrong with me. Sometimes I ask myself if I am destined not to love and be love.

Accept and move on.. there are a lot of people around you too. Easier said than done but time will pass and everything changes. You have to bear with the change or else you'll trap yourself from the past. It is possible to forget but give yourself time. Engage yourself into activities that can divert your mind. Be with friends or your family.