have you ever encounter people like this

United States
November 2, 2010 7:51am CST
yeah ive notice when you do for others, and go beyond what you should to help others out, then as soon they disagree with you about something they seem to be forget all the good things you've done for them over the years. but then still want to make you look like the world most awful person? we've been dealing with this, and now i am like oh well. they can go and be happy i will never reach out to help them
5 responses
@calpro (930)
• India
2 Nov 10
Most of the times most of the people are in the same way. They tend to forget all good things you have done to them If you have not accepted or fulfilled their wish.I came across many people.Even some of my cousins too.
• United States
2 Nov 10
yeah with me its our nephew who gave him a place to live twice, never toss it in his face. but it came down to him or my daughter. i pikced my daughter. and he's still crying over it and stuff. but he seem to forget his dad toss him out for no reasons at all, and didnt care about him nor did his mom even tried to help him out by getting a place for the both of them. yeah
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
Oh wow! This exactly happened to me a year ago and it really depressed me so much. I even wondered if real friends exist in the workplace at all. The worst part is that they couldn't even tell you upfront why they hated you so much? I've learned to forgive and let go anyway and told myself never to trust anybody but myself.
• United States
2 Nov 10
yeah what's sad when its family . yeah i dont keep faith in many people these days
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
2 Nov 10
The words "no good deed goes unpunished" come to mind here. :~D
@vandana7 (100282)
• India
2 Nov 10
That is a strategy - crying foul to create unnecessary guilt, and thereby get an undeserved apology not to mention more help. Don't yield. They'll come round. :)
@Jas2999 (105)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 10
yes! theres one friend of mine that i ussually help if he ask for help D: but when he doesnt need your help he'll treat you badly. theres this one time he tried to make me be transfer to the lousier class! His name is cheong hsiang and it became like an insult for my group of friends. if anyone does something stupid or act rude we scold them cheong hsiang hah. sorry bout my english and a little off topic :p