Do you find happy people around you....?
By chayapathys
@chayapathys (2111)
India
November 2, 2010 8:10am CST
When I talk to my neighbors or friends they always tell their miseries and dificulties they are facing in their day to day life.Only a few say words of happiness.No cheerful words from many.This is my experience almost daily.Then I begin to wonder why all thse people are unhappy in day to day life Are they speaking the truth.Or is it the way of expressing their daily routne with pinch of salt.some may be pretending but all cannot be pretending.Is day to day life really so miserable in these days with so many tensions and speed in every walk of life.What do you think is real cause..?
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6 responses
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
22 Nov 10
We have both. I have noticed that not a lot of people say hello or good morning when out and about.Not too many share their problems either. Everyone seems to go about their lives without too much notice of one another.
@chayapathys (2111)
• India
28 Nov 10
You are correct.I have seen many people who mind their own own business.They tell neither their pleasant experiences nor their sorrows.In one way it is a good attitude towards life.What is the use of telling others about our miseries.No one can solve them expect ourselves .The saying goes as "Don't tell your problems to others.Fifty percent are not interested and the other fifty percent are happy".. Am I correct..?
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
4 Nov 10
Well, may be I should say I am one of the lucky ones. I have a very happy and satisfied environment, especially at work. I am working for a company with many employees, and of course there are many Departments and Sections. The people in the Department I am working for are well treated and satisfied with their jobs. We are all very happy belonging to the Department and working together.
@chayapathys (2111)
• India
28 Nov 10
you are really a very lucky guy.You are one of the very few people who claim to be happy and with out miseries.What I find is that it is in one's attitude towards life that mostly determines his happiness or unhappiness.You continue to have such outlook on life and also inculcate similar feeling among those around you.You will be doing great service to the society..God bless you...
@vijay12 (1642)
• India
2 Nov 10
The cause may be genuine.As one grows up life becomes dull,especially if one has too much responsibilities,and is unable to cope.Luckily,my friends are cheerful and happy go lucky.
@chayapathys (2111)
• India
28 Nov 10
The problems are there for every one without exception and at all times.My doubt is why tell others your worries and make them unhappy.Why not tell others your pleasant experiences.You may have problem but why go on telling others. Do you believe that that they will solve your problems.Certainly not.There is a saying as "Don't tell your problems to others.Fifty percent are not interested and the other fifty percent are happy".Think over this deeply....
@joey_matthews (8354)
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2 Nov 10
There are happy and unhappy people around.... people do generally have something to moan about though because everyone talking to others about their problems helps them get over it and resolve them in a better way. It would be great if everyone was happy but its not going to happy is it because everyones life is quite stressful at the moment.
@chayapathys (2111)
• India
28 Nov 10
You mean to say that when we tell others about our problems we may get some solution.It is correct to some extent.By telling others about our miseries I feel that we are making them unhappy and they start thinking about our problem if they are genuine well wishers.But many are not interested because they have their own miseries and problems.We should try to make others happy as far as possible. That is my philosophy in life....at least by not telling our difficulties to others
@rautrahul (267)
• India
3 Nov 10
Most of the times I find that people are unhappy in their life. Most people are saying that they have atleast some problem in life. I don't no what may be the reason. There are very few people around me who are happy in their life. I always tell my friends that try to be happy whether if you are having a problem try to solve it & keep smiling.
@chayapathys (2111)
• India
28 Nov 10
As you suggested we should keep smiling inspite of our miseries and problems.I have come across some people like that.They are great.The truth is that others will not solve our problems as they they have their problems.Some feel that they get some solace by telling others. We can take suggestions.But the fact remains that one should try to solver his or her own problem by himself or herself.....
@chayapathys (2111)
• India
28 Nov 10
According to you people who are really miserable and depressed tell others to get some relief.OK.But the problem is others do not understand or appreciate the miseries of others and they can do nothing about about.Some people,though not as as miserable as they talk about still go go telling others about their own things without listening to the others.Somehow I have a feeling that are not genuine and pretend to be miserable to evoke sympathy for them.I do not know how far I am correct.After all every one has his or her own experience....
