At the age of 25, have you thought of marrying and having beautiful babies?
By zhaychel
@zhaychel (610)
United Arab Emirates
November 2, 2010 9:54am CST
These past few days, I was really bothered with my friends and family members who are getting married. I was secretly dreaming of having a family of my own. Even my mother asked me such questions, I am 100% sure though that I am going to marry my boyfriend yet I don't know when. Oh! But how come I am rushing things up where in fact I am still turning 25?
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7 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
2 Nov 10
zahaycehel, it is always ideal to marry the one we love but really do not put time limits to your relationship. Life is hard enough without added stresses.. I wish you a happy life and take your time as if it is true love he too would be willing to wait.
Better wait then to question after you have done so. So enjoy yourself and the rest will come natural.
@2004cqui (2812)
• United States
2 Nov 10
Above all, love yourself and love your life. Love of another, marriage and children will naturally follow if that is what you want to do one day. You have plenty of time for that. Don't let anyone push you into anything. Your decisions in your life are just that. Don't base your decisions, especially life long commitments based on someone else pushing you into it.
Have a great life!
@joey_matthews (8354)
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2 Nov 10
If you know your going to marry then you don't need to rush into things unless of course you both want to settle down and start a family together soon. You are not too young to marry and have children though. People settle down at all different ages now and its not wrong to marry early or later on in life. I married when i was 18 and my wife was 19 and had children when i was 19 years old. Some people think thats early, but it was right for me and if 25 is right for you then it doesn't matter what other people think.
@magrylouyu (1627)
• United States
20 Nov 10
There is no 'right' age to marry. Some people never marry for the sake of all the things involved. I am almost 25 a few months shy and I have been married for almost 5 years in Feb. and my husband and I have 3 very beautiful little girls together and I have a very handsome stepson. I got married shortly before turning 20. I know some people who wait until 35 years old to marry. Good luck and hope you marry the one you love for all the right reasons.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
18 Nov 10
There is nothing at all wrong about dreaming of having beautiful children and being married when you are twenty five years old. You see, my daughter was born when I was twenty two years old and I got married to her father when I was twenty four years old. Then, our final blessing was added to the family when I was twenty six years old and my son was born. I really couldn't imagine my life being any different than the life that I've got right now.
@jypsyjulia (912)
• United States
2 Nov 10
Heck, I'm twenty and let me list for you my friends who got married:
Friend One: 18 years old when she got married
Friend Two: also 18; not divorced :(
Friend Three: Engaged @ 20
Friend Four: Getting married in March, 22 years old
Friend Five: Also getting married in March, 20 years old
Friend Six: Got married when she was 21 (last year)
Friend Seven: Engaged @ 20
... need I go on? LOL.
When I see all my friends getting married, I get nervous too, even though I'm only 20 years old! I think I am much too young for marriage, for sure, but still. Only one got divorced and the rest are happily married so it freaks me out, like "Should I be getting married now? Am I going to miss out on this?" etc. But really, it all depends on YOUR timing. Don't rush things- in fact, if you feel like you're rushing things, STOP. Don't do it! Let time take it's course and it will be so worth it in the end.