difficult people
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
November 2, 2010 2:28pm CST
there are different types of people, the extrovert type, the one who makes friends easy who's always in the center of attention, the good listener, the joker but there is also another type, the introvert, who doesn't socialise really much, the shy type. how would you treat this kind of people? would you try to talk to them, get to know them better? or just ignore them?
3 responses
@samueljohn357 (27)
• India
3 Nov 10
Well some are introvert by nature... others act so only in public .... With these people one may try to socialize ...there is no harm in that ... in fact one may soon come 2 learn that this person has really good ideas....
But there is no need to change one's own nature for that person ... like if someone likes talking 2 people ..by avoiding a shy person purposely ,it conveys that person is mean ...
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
3 Nov 10
just one question if you don't mind? how do you realise if someone it's introvert by nature or acts like that only in public?because if you don';t know him I guess you don't have any idea of how he acts in his private life?
and you said it's ok to tlk to people who are introvert only in public..well I think it's ok to try to get to know better both categoryes of people. becuase most of introverts are the same..if they recieve a little encouragement they will reveal their real nature. this it's just a barrier that they point out. some of them might have reason ( like the fear of getting hurt) whereas other do this inconsciently
@creyos (275)
• Indonesia
2 Nov 10
Hi, Swissheart, the extrovert type is truly center of attention, but they are not a good listener, since they always want to be the center, so in every occasions they will talk more even interrupting while other is speaking. I think there needs the ambivert type to connect between extrovert to introvert more easily.
To treat the introvert people will not be difficult as they will more passive and silent, they tend to be more sensitive so maybe at first we should approach them with the modest and humble manner.
And about to know better or ignore them, I think it depends on how you value the friendship. If you'd like to group with peoples with certain criterias, just cross checked whether the introvert type is included on the list or not. If you want to make friends with everyone including introvert type, you should treat them by being warm or friendly and don't make fun of them. They will slowly open to discussion and the best thing, introvert people is usually trustable and a loyal friend.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
2 Nov 10
I was not saying that the extrover type is a good listener..I didn't express myself really well I think but I refered to them as different types of people, I wasn't describing the extrovert type :)
@aaronfyzeon (1920)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
It is always been a challenge dealing with difficult people. People with attitude problems and sometimes the stubborn ones are the least that other people would want to deal with. But my job is talking to different kinds of people. One may be nice but still difficult to deal with because of the manner he or she would talk to you is really annoying. I hope having this kind of quality or I should say talent would not make me difficult to handle as well.
