Is it true that love can be learned?
By josendo
@josendo (20)
Philippines
November 2, 2010 4:53pm CST
It is very nice to be in a relationship wherein the feeling is mutual between two individual. Well, ideally it should be. But there were times also, that all relationship is like this. There were some couple, that love is not a must. They were in a relationship just because they feel comfortable with each other but not merely love. And sometimes,circumstances comes. like, choosing and deciding,whether you rely on the one you love but doesn't really love you, or the one who loves you but you didn't love. If you were to choose,which of the situation will you prefer?
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10 responses
@haroonhyderabadi (99)
• India
3 Nov 10
love is like a free bird , put in a cage , to be opened by the key which hans a the brains corrridor
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
3 Nov 10
Yes, I ever experienced learning to love someone. I think, thing like this only happen to girls and not boys. Because I think boys are never able to learn to love. If they don't love you, then they will not.
If I had to choose to love or to be loved, my choice falls to : to be loved.
To be loved is always nice. When that someone loves me and does everything for me.. it will be easy for me to learn to love them
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@dhysanne (449)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
Sometimes we don't understand the true essence of love. It is not just a feeling. It is an act. I don't believe that two people married because their just comfortable with each other, and not because of love. Love is there! Anything that's in good harmony is all because of love.
I just don't understand why people think this way. Is it because they are involved with someone else but can't marry them? If they will just focus with their partnership, ask God's guidance they will be enlighten that they were together because of love and nothing else.
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@annawen86 (545)
• Indonesia
3 Nov 10
love is about two people complete each other.loving each other and supporting each other. if only one of them who has the love, so it is not a good relationship. i have a lot of experience about being loved and loving someone. but i didnt enjoy it.
once, i found out that my best friend in senior high school, loved me so. until he drunk and yell at my name when i was rejected his love.i feel so pity of him, so i try to be like usual. but i didnt feel comfortable. he loves me, but i'm not. i didnt feel good. it make me suffer.
and in other time, i love someone who didnt love me at all, and it was more painful and miserable. because i have to through my day with broken heart all alone. and he didnt even notice at me.
so, i think i better prefer to be with the one who loves me but i didnt love him. it is more safe for me.
luckily i have a boyfriend who loves me so, and i love him so. i dont have to worry to choose like that in my reality :)
@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
3 Nov 10
I think love is not some thing to be learned, it is God gifted and it can come out of you at any time. I think love it self is teacher which teaches you the lesson of life and teaches you whom to attract, it is the love which comes out of the eyes in first sight and you choose your partner on the basis of your love, so I think love is not a thing which is to be learned whether in relationship or without relationship, it makes your relationship and it teaches you how to make this relationship stronger and stronger....:)
@starlight_starbright (810)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
hi josendo,
I honestly believe that there are many women in a man's life but there is one and only man in a woman's life. This could be true, why? Even though man truly love his partner, given a circumstance, he "unintentionally cheats on his partner. On the other hand, when a woman fall in love, the she loves becomes her only life. As woman, I would choose a man I truly love. If I am a man, I would choose the woman who truly loves me. ^_^
@calebknox (149)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
love is always learned, love is not caught, it is taught.. it is better that way. and studies shows that in countries wherein arranged marriage is still existing, they are the ones who are deliriously happy. they also have the lowest divorce rate in the world..
@yskgandhi (47)
• India
3 Nov 10
ya of course there are some circumstances comes in love but they will learn by understanding each other. If i have to choose a person in the above situation i will choose one who love me because one i love she won't love me so i love who love me. that only the human kind because one person wants to love another person when there is same love on that person that is the reason.so this is the reason why will i choose the person who love me.