Why do girls/woman love bad boys so much?
By johney264
@johney264 (544)
China
November 3, 2010 12:54am CST
Here's on thing I just don't understand.
Why do women and girls love bad boys so much? What is it about them that turns them on? Are good guys too good for certain women these days? And if it's a good guy, then they have to have money because being good and not have nothing doesn't get you very far. But let it be a bad boy and have nothing. A woman would do whatever and whenever for him. A bad boy would treat a woman like crap, gives less attention and sometimes physical abuse. A woman would be mad for the moment, but will be back in the guys arms afterwards. Don't be the good guy trying to go for the rebound because you'll be left with the short end of the stick. I mean if there are women out there that think otherwise, please feel free to let me know. 
Why do women and girls love bad boys so much? What is it about them that turns them on? Are good guys too good for certain women these days? And if it's a good guy, then they have to have money because being good and not have nothing doesn't get you very far. But let it be a bad boy and have nothing. A woman would do whatever and whenever for him. A bad boy would treat a woman like crap, gives less attention and sometimes physical abuse. A woman would be mad for the moment, but will be back in the guys arms afterwards. Don't be the good guy trying to go for the rebound because you'll be left with the short end of the stick. I mean if there are women out there that think otherwise, please feel free to let me know. 9 responses
@chatelaine09 (433)
• Australia
3 Nov 10
Personally,I think its the challenge of reforming a bad boy that women like about bad boys.Guess some women also convince themselves that they can change a bad boy to change through their kindness/sweetness or something...
@rinfour (250)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
I agree, it is the challenge of reforming a bad boy to somebody they can bring home to their parents.
I also think that the satisfaction of getting kind treatment from the bad guy is something that they want. Imagine a "bad boy" being all sweet to you but acts as an a-hole to everybody else? However I think it is only temporary, because women want stability from their man.
@calebknox (149)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
that's what they thought, actually as what ive said earlier, ''cocoon to butterfly theory is applicable only to cocoon and butterflies,,hahah
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
because they feel excited and probably they want an exciting relationship. they want to argue a lot when he's doing wrong. they think they can inspire them to be good. in return, the guy would show gratitude that he change because of her. anyways, there's no such thing as bad, but probably honest and weird, but honest. probably troubled but still honest. unlike the good or errr. so called nice onces, the one you see is only the tip of the ice berg.
@keshia2007r (2880)
• United States
3 Nov 10
to be simple.
or to but it simple.
women like the chase, just as much as men.
good guys are good. but there is nothing really different about them.
bad boys are difficult, and go get what you want isn't always easy.
i would prefer a bad boys over a good guy and day.
just my perference.
again the main reason is the chase.
men chase women for the thrill
women like the chase of a man. because nothning worth having is easy.
in my opinion its the truth.
@bocotalpa (19)
• Italy
3 Nov 10
I don't know the answer.
I deal the girl very well, but their go always with bad boy.
perhaps, I should also treat them badly?
@yellowhipon (793)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
You know that line from a song, "bad, bad, bad , bad boys.you make me feel so good"?
Its exactly that. There's something so rewarding when a bad boy becomes good because of you. That much I know because my husband was once a bad boy with not much plans in life. But after we got together, he found himself a job and he's also studying now. All his relatives and friends notice and appreciate the change.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
3 Nov 10
I believe it is the thrill, and the excitement as it brings some zest into the relationship. I have had my thrill in this area but in all honesty I prefer a more relax type of person. As the roller coaster effects of this type of relationship gets a bit too emotional for me.
@calebknox (149)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
It's because sometimes woman feels like it is their God-given responsibility to somehow polish them if not change them, they are hoping that maybe if they could eliminate those rough edges, they would eventually turn into their ideal man..
The ''cocoon to butterfly theory'' is applicable only to cocoons and butterflies.
I sorry to be the one popping the bubble here, but if it looks like a skunk, walks like a skunk and smell like a skunk, It's a skunk.
