for the second time around....."need advice"
By zeedaom
@zeedaom (9)
November 3, 2010 3:22am CST
i've been rejected by my first love 10 years ago...but last xmas i saw her, we exchange number then she added me on her facebook friends, to make the story short we reconect again she calls me 3 times a week and it will last for about 2hours or more....my problem is im having feelings again for her, its not as deep as it was before but im afraid that in time it will....
why not ask her? im afraid to be dump again by the same person...
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6 responses
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
29 Nov 10
When you're in love, being afraid would only keep you afloat of where you stand... expressing and showing your affection would make you feel better, and i think it would pay off in the end. So, it is better not to have second thoughts on how you feel...
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
24 Nov 10
We are not the same people that we were 10 years ago. A second chance at a relationship just might be worth going after. You won;t know until you try.
@celticeagle (168420)
• Boise, Idaho
3 Nov 10
Why set yourself up again to be hurt? I would ask her straight out. She must have some feelings for you to reconnect like this. Life is short. Why spend time hoping secretly that things will end as you obviously would like things to when there is a possibility they won't? You should know what the opportunites are. You should ask her what you can expect and what the boundaries are.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
5 Nov 10
If you really want her then why not try it again. You'll never get what you want if you don't reach for it.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
10 Nov 10
True love has a power to get the love back from the other. So keep expressing and show your love and care, naturally it will make the love blossom in your dear one. And ask yourself whom your heart beats for.
@nero_ocelot23 (435)
• Philippines
5 Nov 10
Hi,zeedaom,It will cause you no harm if you confess your feelings to her once again. People change. You got nothing to lose, you'll lose more if you won't try it. Don't be afraid to express what you truly feel. You just have to be prepared on the outcome of your action. Never set high expectations because it will just really cause you great disappointment if what you expected didn't happen. Thank you.
