Is divorce better than bad marriage?

At first I must say, YES it is better to get separated rather than a bad morning everyday. I can feel the situation more than any other country mate because I am from India and here the relationship is given more priority. If there is no love in relationship it will never give you happiness and peace of mind. Yes, it should be the ultimate decision you should take. Not that, just had a quarrel and decided for divorce. You must try to settle down before making such decision. Because for you your children will suffer a lot, where as they have not made any mistake. They will be deprived of all love they are authorized for. I have seen many couple who have faced to this situation and ended their relationship like this. But it's very difficult to settle down in the post life either. So take the decision intelligently. Rather I would say, please do not fight with partner and try to live a happy life. Thank you for your patience.

indeed in a household must have let the problem was while I was dating, there are times when a problem comes and fights always can not be avoided, while still interested we are both women or men are always busy finding ways to be able to unite together and become lovers and married after a divorce for what ... there are times when problems can not be solved by only married couples only, but we should go to their parents after that there must be a way out, approach, build relationships and get married all of that which regulates the couple, why when going out all over the world belongs to both, sad- seduction rags scattered and kisses always stuck to the cheek .. huh ... trends, do you know the meaning of the trend that read this: TAKE UNTIL REACTION ENDING MEANING IS TRENDS

As a woman,i never dreamed of a broken marriage. When i made my vows i felt as if it is like a fairy tale with "ever after happy life" But it's not what happened. I did my best to save everything,swallow all my pride and forget myself in order to save my marriage,but to no avail. No child/children ever wanted to have a broken family either. Sometimes it is beyond anyone's control. So many things to consider,kids,society,friends and the concern individual. It's not easy to resort into divorce,it's like a nightmare that no one wants to sleep,so as not to experience such nightmare. But,reality should be faced with courage and determination,whether to hold on or let go. Final decisions may be successful,sometimes worst. Whatever it is,the concern must have an open mind and accept the consequences for each action that they've made. I choose to separate legally than staying in a relationship that might lead me into losing myself respect. Respect/dignity is the only thing i know that i can be proud of myself. Each couple that decided to get divorced has their own reasons,and must be respected too,we are not in their position to judge them. And,we can not judge anyone unless we are in their shoe and been into same situation to fully understand what they feel and how tragic it is for them. have a good day always

I think it is, a bad marriage could make you sick. if you stick too long with people you don't get along is really bad for you, that works at your job for example, you can't actually go through your life if you don't get along with your boss for example, is really bad for you. Now the person that you have to see everytime you're at home, that's worse

Divorce,to me is something that should come last in every marriage if at all it must happen. The mentality of the modern age has made everybody (men and women) to abandon the rules of respect and mutual coexistence created by our creator. This must exist between the couples before they can live in peace.

hi ajay. well divorce is good thing to do unless u know that's the better thing for both of the partners for sure.how long will it take for a couple to make their relationship work the way they want it to be...?any idea?nope they dont nor anyone can say that wit for a month ,a week or so or wait till you grow old n nothings left for both of them. here if your hope of restoring a healthy marital reltion is gr8 n appreciated but what if it closes the way out for ur partner eternally n messes both lives?so according to me there's no use in hooking to each other even though knowing that they r nt compatible by anymeans at all.u or she with a broad mind shd think that she or you has the right to live a happy life without ruining the others n at the same time ur's. marital relation is a personal thing,the society ,law,frnds,family all cn involve on the outer shell bt not alter inside the very core.so it's better to go free n breathe a poisonous air than dying inside with suffocation n pretending in the name of hope for the sake of this world ,traditions etc.but always be broadminded n matured.you shd respect ur partner's decision in this n sometimes even if it makes u a villain let t be .u r tryin to do good for herself or think that she turned into a villain so that i can be free and go on with my life . thanx anyways

Divorce is 100% better than a bad marriage. Sure, it's best to actually try to work out what went wrong, but a lot of the time the relationship as simply become obsolete. In these cases, divorce is optimal and I absolutely do NOT believe in shaming or stigmatizing this decision. There is nothing wrong with getting a divorce. Things change, people change and I do NOT believe in living in misery for that.

Hi ajay, I think it all depends on the problems that they have between them and the people involved. Truthfully, I think that too many walk too quickly into marriage without taking enough time to really get to know the other person. It takes committment and dedication not only to each other but to the marriage itself and both people have to be dedicated in making it work. It's pretty useless if only one person is trying and the other is not. I don't think spending a lifetime trying to work things out in a miserable marriage is good at all.

I do not agree with divorce as a solution of happy marriage life. One of the best solutions for happy family is the words of God. Faith and fear with God is one to the last resort in terms of any troubles in marriage not divorce. If both the spouse have fear and faith with God. I don't think that marriage experience any problem. But if the one of the spouse don't have faith and fear with God's words. I'm sure arguments, quarrel and misunderstanding being bitten in the relationship of both spouse

As a child I grew up through two broken marriages. On each occasion they spent more time trying to 'fix' their relationships- or arguing within them, than they ever spent looking after the health and future of their children. They would have probably been better parents had they divorced earlier.

I feel divorce is a better option than to continue in a bad matrimonial...by divorce i mean a mutual divorce between the couple...i don't see a point in continuing a marriage were the paths are totally different and cannot be the same...by divorcing they can probably be in touch or be friends and also they need to understand each other's sentiments and respect feelings...

yup! because if you will just live in that kind of situation...what for?you will just make your life miserable...this is if your marriage is doesn't working out no matter how the both of you try to fix all matters... need to give your self time to recover and enjoy life again. happy mylotting!

I think that before divorce happens you need to look at the past, when you met, everything leading up to the wedding, look at all the good times, try and find out what went wrong, if this can be fixed then that would be great, but most of the time it leads to divorce where it is rare that they get on after as they seem to be at each others throats.

Marriage is a commitment between two people. If one of the couple break the commitment, it will hurt the partner. Everybody has problem, but if the problem cannot be solved by marriage couple, i think it's really hard to continue the marriage. Marriage is not about win or lost, but marriage is about two people sharing together in good or bad things. So, even it's so hard, it's better to get divorce rather than having suffering marriage.

I don't like divorce but staying in an abusive relationship whether its metal, physical or verbal only damages the people within the circle of the family. Kids will grow up to do the same to their family. What a curse! If there is not going to be any change between the two partners then go your separate ways, nobody stays at a job they hate, life is too short to be miserable all your life.

I have been divorced and I am married now for the second time. Although for me divorcing was the best option as I would not be in the happy relationship I am in now if I had not broken up with my first husband I can’t say that I want to be an advocate for divorce because, hypocritical as this sound too many couples resort to separation too soon before attempting to sort out their problems. My belief now, that I am older and hopefully a little wiser is that one should not walk away from a marriage until no stone has been left unturned and that one has done all that is humanly possible to make the marriage work. The reason I say that is that all partnerships will encounter rough spots because wedded bliss is hard work and to walk away at the first signs of problems is all too easy. Of course if the situation is hopeless life is too short to spend it in misery and walking away may well be the answer...

Living in a bad marriage is not good for anyone. Life can be miserable and unhappy for you when you have a marriage that is rocky. It isn;t a pleasant thing to think of, but in these situations, divorce ends up being a better solution to a happy life. Some people are better to each other when they are apart.

Being in a bad marriage is much worse than just getting a divorce. Of course, if you feel that your relationship needs some work and your marriage can last, then you should try to get some counseling or have a trial separation to see where it takes your relationship. After some time passes, you will either reconcile knowing that you missed your mate and want to stay together, or you will be happier that you parted ways and then you can make it permanent and get divorced. Staying married to a person that never makes you happy anymore, or decides to spend their time away from you all the time, does not constitute a good marriage. If you find yourself happier when you are not with your mate the majority of the time, I think that tells you everything you need to know. Life is too short to live it unhappily on a daily basis.

I did divorce.. with my exhusband.. :(

It's better to get out, especially if there are no hopes of it getting better. I was the cause of my divorce. I cheated on my husband and didn't want to grow up. I can look back and say that now. And he did nothing wrong. Sure he was a jerk at times and didn't always know how to communicate his feelings, but never treated my bad. Our daughter is the one who suffers though. I was lucky. The state awarded my custody even though I caused the divorce. I am putting the child support aside in a trust fund for her. Hopefully he'll appreciate that someday. We tried for a year, but it, I, never got better. I was selfish. It's take two to make it work, and two to repair it.