wish her to die

Hi Tess, I'm sorry if you feel that way for your sister. I may not know the whole story between you and your sister but maybe she has reasons why she's been like that to you. Just give her space and later on she will realize how important you are to her and will appreciate that things that you did for her and her baby. Don't wish her to die but instead wish that you'll be able to fix your relationship with her. Good Luck.

Lucky for me I have the best little sister and the best little brother.I have never have done anything to make me wish that on them.Sorry you a sister that would do things to make you feel that way.

Hello Tess, I know this story that you have mentioned in some of you're discussions. i believe you have the right to hate, but of course, I know God is watching. And I believed that he won't give you a challenge you can't face or solved. i know you think life is unfair because of what she did. it was clear she immature and she couldn't handle the pressure any more. But please, "don't hate the child" Love her, am sure she will choose you over this immature mom of hers in the future.help the kid and she will be greatful to you in the end. as for the mom or you're sister, let her be. Be Strong, and Have Faith. Stop trying to understand you're sister and start moving on, with that Baby.

As I don't have a sister, I cannot say I have. Neither have I wished it on my brothers even though we went through some tough times together. I thought he was an idiot at that time, but I just wanted him to grow up, and through all that, we came out better and stronger. He now knows that he can always rely on me when he has a problem, even though I will rant and rave at him. We will always be on the same side even though occasionally I might bop him over the head out of exasperation. I also know that he will do the same for me. It might sound as if the problem is hopeless now, but a few years down the road, you will find each other again. Blood is really thicker than water.

of course not, love your sister even she treated you like that.

Wow I can't say I have ever wished that. I've sure been pissed at her before though! I just try to remember that (as much as I wish I could) I can't control other peoples actions. So try not to let her drain your energy (and sanity!). And maybe she doesn't deserve your help but her baby does and sounds like this baby probably needs you.

Okay, please do not hate your sister. Maybe you are piss now, but later you will realize how much you love her. To be a big brother or sister is hard, its your challenge, I believe that in everything we struggle for, there is a safer way, then find it. Please do not give up as time would come that your sister will realize how much you care for her... Good luck on that.

I'm really really sorry to hear your situation... i know it must be hard on you...well i can't blame you for wishing her to die and just be gone.... i wonder what makes her do what she does... and why she keeps on doing it.... have you ever tried to talk to her about it?? i guess i'm lucky my sister isn't like that...we're the best of friends....

what? dont wish someone else to die! specially now she had a baby i also experienced same thing like you do... i had a sister and she also have kids and we've been there and done that but now we are ok because I gave her enough understanding, in the end she'll come back at you asking for help dont hesitate to do so because you are a family, and family should stick together! as of now she might be like that probably she is having an issue with herself too.. so try to understand her and forgive her...