do you want to know why men most of the time leads to cheating?
By calebknox
@calebknox (149)
Philippines
November 3, 2010 3:35pm CST
what's happening inside them literally?
what are they thinking?
is it because Man they say cannot be contented?.
i wanna hear your insights about this.
thank you!
i'm gonna have to establish the facts as we go along.
2 responses
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
3 Nov 10
First of all, BOTH genders cheat the same. It's NOT just men and it is certainly not "most" men, either.
There are as many reasons to cheat as there are people who cheat. Some are selfish, some are discontented, some just aren't thinking.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
3 Nov 10
No, it's not the man in most cases. Men and women cheat the same, equally. There are just as many women who cheat as there are men. In some countries women cheat far more than men do.
And there is no "answer why" because everyone is different, everyone has a different reason. There is no one single answer that is true for every single person.
@calebknox (149)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
of all the cheating incident in the world, this is based on factual research.. 45-to 55% of married woman cheats, while man falls on 50-60% cheating rate. it is safe to say that man cheats more than woman. though they have different reasons. but for Man it falls on one category only,, it's because of EGO.
@calebknox (149)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
actually that is true, but in most cases it is the man that falls in the category..
and nobody really knows the answer why?.. what is happening to him?.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
3 Nov 10
Good question and it could be a derivative of many factors. One of which obviously there some form of insecurity as a secure man knows what he has before him and what he should be appreciating.
A secure man would definitely approach his partner and say it is just not working out and or I am in lust/love with someone else. However it takes a coward to do what they do and string along a partner who later will be doubly upset.
@calebknox (149)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
it's true nice analysis,,but to better understand the Man,we should establish the basis here,, first of all
- a man's brain is wired differently from a woman's brain and we are built that way for a reason, a man's brain is made up of lots of different little boxes, they have a box for everything, the car, the children, the bills, etc.. and the rule is ''the box never touches'' they talk about a particular subject, they get the boxes for that subject and speaks only of what's inside it, nothing more.
- while the female brain is made up of a huge ball of wire, that is interconnected with each other, and it's powered by what we called emotions.
-pathetic as it may seem ,you have to be supportive of his ideas no matter how silly as it may seem,im not saying that you cant challenge him, but you have to establish first that you are his number one fan,because if you keep rejecting his ideas calling it stupid or ignorant,you are making a huge damage to the Man, to his ego and to the relationship, you are teaching him this.. '' i cannot share my dreams with this woman''and he will be keeping it to himself,
-and lastly another fact of cheating is that all cheating starts with emotional issues, it's not lust outright,, now miraculously somebody else thought that his ideas are superb, now he got himself a fan. if its a Man there will be no problem about it, but if its a woman, now you are in a bad place.if she really thinks that his ideas are superb flirting aside.
because a Man is in constant search for that someone whom he can share his dreams with, until that day he found him. he will never stop searching.
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@sk66rc (4250)
• United States
3 Nov 10
Have you ever heard of a pastor name "Mark Gungor" & his seminar called "Laugh your way to a better marriage."? It sounds almost exactly like his seminar word for word, boxes & wires.
@calebknox (149)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
that's his name! i just happened to stumble upon this on a news letter at our office before.. i was thinking of his surname for 3 months now.. hahahah!!,, very good man.. learned a lot from that article.. is he a christian pastor?.