The person who loves you or the person you love?

I'd like to have the third option: the guy I love and he loves me too. But if I have to choose from your only two options, I'd definitely choose the person who loves me. Actually I already did this , and I'd never say I was wrong. I think if you choose to be with the person you love, you risk to suffer. He might be in love with another girl and he might leave you and let you suffer.

Me too. I'd choose the woman who loves me and the woman i love. If i also have the option.

hello, If i need to choose between the two..someone who loves me or someone i love?, I definitely would choose the one who loves me. Why?...simply because i once loved someone and given my all,my best and everything,yet i still lose him (or i must say,he lost me for his dumbness...he is a cheat) It hurts me,and i don't want it to happen again,so if given a chance that someone would love me much than i can give,i will choose that man. I know my capacity and i know i will be able to learn to love him too,as long as he will prove his love is worth enough for me to love him back. So,i would prefer to gamble to someone who loves me than loving someone whom i don't know if loves me the same way as i loved him. Have a good day always