When your friend tell about a truth, bit it's hurt you, what will you do ?

Indonesia
November 4, 2010 4:35am CST
Imagine if you have a good friend, and then sometimes they talk to you about a truth that they keep since long time, and it's really hurt you. What your expression ? And what will you do ?
3 responses
donsky14
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
If its something really hurtful then I'm gonna be quiet and wonder what I did wrong to my friend. Then I'll talk to him/her and ask how we ended up like that.
carrizo
@carrizo (86)
• Indonesia
4 Nov 10
I agree with you, inspecting the bad side of ourself is a great-man will did. If we do this, we are a person who has a big heart.
djbtol
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
4 Nov 10
What I actually do will probably depend if I can control my emotions. What I should do is listen carefully, ask enough questions to understand what they are really saying, thank them for their honesty (even if delayed) and then spend some time thinking it through. If their words hurt me, then I may need to communicate that to them, but probably at a different time. Hate to lose a good friend, so forgiveness will be the best course of action.
carrizo
@carrizo (86)
• Indonesia
4 Nov 10
Yes, hating somebody will only make us lose our friends. So we must think twice before we do something, because everything got their own effect. And forgiveness is the best action of everything.
saibal10
@saibal10 (89)
• India
19 Mar 11
It is hard to agree but we should do because this will prove my friends honesty and it will directly held for my own development through rectification