maybe her need someone
By JimmySun
@jimmysun (401)
China
November 4, 2010 6:27am CST
she really tired, from the bottom of her heart, but she have no one to say to...Seeing them always can talk to their BFs about the troubles they met,seeing them always can gain a happy smile when getting the support from their BFs, i think she cannot help feeling more lonely, more helpless...
Everytime she encounter this,she would feel blue, whiy she doesnot have such a person to talk to? even he will listen to her complain,even he will give her a shoulder or a warm hug, or even a small talk. she cannot talk this to her parents, they may worry about her,she cannot talk this to her roommates,they have their own things to do too,may can share no time for her,she cannot talk to him, for she dont have the right to bother him if she does not want to accept him...
why she cannot find someone beside her to support her? why she cannot find someone to be accompanied when going for an interview? she really need someone to comfort her, to support her after meeting so much trouble, for she found that she was not s strong as she thought, she just also be a little girl, not a big one who is mature enough to deal with everything herself...
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5 responses
@annawen86 (545)
• Indonesia
4 Nov 10
she cant be like that forever. well, i'm a kind of introvert person but i try to be extrovert to my mom, sisters, and my boyfriend.
if her boyfriend really care about her. i guess he will knew what happen to his girl. my boyfriend always knew that something has happened to me everything i have troubles. and he always try to be at my side everytime i feel blue. he even dont go to his office just to accompany me and support me in my graduate time, in my difficult time, and in the time when i needed him the most. i always ask him to go to office because i dont want to bother him. but he always refuse it, and chhose to accompany.
that's what a lover do. support his love, no matter what.
she has to open herself, and her boyfriend has to understand him.
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
4 Nov 10
It is tough being lonely. She needs to continue to move forward. Focus on the things she needs to do (school, work) and also look for ways to help others. Sometimes when we reach out to others to help them, we get the bigger blessing.
In time, her special one will come along and life will be so much brighter. She must keep this hope in her mind, and not dwell on the loneliness.
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
How old is she?
In our life we all need somebody to lean on as the song goes. And there are just things that we can not share to just anybody but to only one person pf whom we adore, a bf or a husband...
Doesn't she have suitors? I believe that there's always someone waiting for us. Though she might have that longing for the meantime but she must not focus on the longing but rather concentrate on the other things which she already have. Like jobs, family and friends so that if the special someone came to her life,she'll be ready for him and her frinds as well as her family will be much happier for her.
She must make herself stable first. That person she is longing for will come her way when it is God's will for them to meet...
@snowhybiscuis (1882)
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
Doesn't she have a friend or isn't she close to her family? Sometimes people look at wrong places. There are people around us who can be our sounding board and who care enough for us. But we tend not to see them because we stick with what others have and see what we don't have. Why not look at what we have and nurture this. Develop the bond with them who truly cares for us...
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
is this about you? or is it a story?^^ it seems like a story :) anyway if she feels with so many problems and so many confusions she should ask advises from other people. im sure that someone will advise and help her. we all need to talk about our problems^^ keep things for ourselves will be worse. anyway i like the way you write^^ if this is only a story is very well written. if is a reality she should really find someone even a stranger to advise her. if you need talk if this is your story im here to listen and advise you 
