To Love or Be Loved? :D (Both not included!)

I don't understand why there are so many discussion like this here. Why do so many people think that you should have to choose?

I would choose to be loved. It's very difficult that it's only you who loves your partner and he doesn't give anything back in return for your love. But for me,I wouldn't accept someone's love if I don't feel anything for that person even a bit. Meaning if I'll get in a relationship again,I prefer that my partner loves me more that I love him.

I would always want to give love. Giving of your own heart and emotions can give you the greatest joy you will ever know.