Have a child already?
By GSFMNW
@GSFMNW (19)
United States
November 4, 2010 2:55pm CST
If you knew for a fact, no single doubt in your mind, that this special someone is the one you are going to marry, would you have a child with them or wait? And the other person feels the same way about you as you do them.
Here's the catch... you're only 16yrs old.
Tell me what you think.
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2 responses
@joey_matthews (8354)
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4 Nov 10
If i was 16 i wouldn't plan to have children with my gf even if we are planning on staying together forever. If by accident my gf became pregnant we would have the child though because we don't feel having an abortion is right and i would feel bad about choosing to abort a child. I was ready to have children at the age of 17 though, but we had our first child when i was nearly 19.
@buragee (172)
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4 Nov 10
Honestly speaking. I already experienced that exactly 4 years ago. I am 20 now. So when I am 16, my beloved ghost (my ex girlfriend) and I are always talking about marriage, babies bla bla bla. We said to each other that we will be doing that after we settle down ourselves. Like finish schooling together and a strong relationship for a few years. But sadly speaking, we break up because of some unexpected disaster.
Back to the topic. Its better to wait. The couple should have mature attitude to handle those big responsibility.