do you believe that was destiny that put your lover in your life?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
November 4, 2010 5:50pm CST
hi guys^^
do you believe that was destiny that put your lover in your life?^^ about me i believe that. bcs i met him since a year ago and i didnt notice him before. or i mean i thought he was sweet sure but liked him as a friend only. he never had much time for us to talk i mean one day he came, other day didnt. like this so i didnt pay attention to him as a future bf even he said he loved me. then when i was sad and he always was there. i messaged him or something and he always came to talk with me :) even when we argued he then used to come back if i messaged him for us
to solve things =) till that he said he better be away then bcs i always ended liking other guys and he comforted me. i liked other guys bcs they gave me attention sure. anyway then i saw that he really loved me and i decided to give him a chance =) we were very happy at first. we talked almost everyday. but sometimes he came too late. like at 3am and my mum sure wanted i slept at that hour. so i didnt be awake at that time and now i get up at 7am for us to talk but
still he cant always 
i believed that destiny put him in my life bcs he was very sweet and caring and really showed he loved me always. never flirted with other girls, always just saw me and i sure fell also bcs of that^^ i felt special but now i dont feel special. i dont want to give him up bcs we been through a lot of things. his computer got destroyed two times and he tehn fix it for us to talk, when his cell was broke he used his sister's for us to talk but
now i feel he could do more than what he does. so i wont give up easy unless he really doesnt want to fight anymore.. then i will have to. i cant be doing all for see him and feel that he doesnt care the same way back. we needed to be at least messaging each other everyday and that doesnt happen.. not everyday bcs he is always busy.. in love there is always time isnt it? 
do you guys believe that your lover was put in your life by destiny also? please share^^ 
i believed that destiny put him in my life bcs he was very sweet and caring and really showed he loved me always. never flirted with other girls, always just saw me and i sure fell also bcs of that^^ i felt special but now i dont feel special. i dont want to give him up bcs we been through a lot of things. his computer got destroyed two times and he tehn fix it for us to talk, when his cell was broke he used his sister's for us to talk but
now i feel he could do more than what he does. so i wont give up easy unless he really doesnt want to fight anymore.. then i will have to. i cant be doing all for see him and feel that he doesnt care the same way back. we needed to be at least messaging each other everyday and that doesnt happen.. not everyday bcs he is always busy.. in love there is always time isnt it?
do you guys believe that your lover was put in your life by destiny also? please share^^ 1 person likes this
6 responses
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
4 Jun 11
Yes and no.
Yes, 'destiny' (or 'luck' or 'happenstance' or 'God' or 'gravity' or 'Flying Spaghetti Monster') puts the lover in your life. But no, the lover doesn't 'invade' your life by 'forced entry.' The lover hangs onto you IF YOU GIVE THEM THE CHANCE (from 'leaving them a ledge to clutch onto' to 'opening the door wide for them to waltz on in').
@carsocmaguinsay (417)
• Philippines
30 May 11
destiny. i do believe there is destiny for everyone. life is full of choices, and i think no matter how consistent or inconsistent you are in making decisions, still you are subject to your destiny, because that is because of what you have become and how you choose to project yourself to the society. the same thing with love, you get attracted to a person because you have certain preferences. you made yourself in love because you choose to be involved. and i had to tell this ahead, some relationships were just good at the start, you may feel that you wanna have it forever. sometimes, after breakup, its hard to move on. but again, it is your choice if you move on or not. its actually all in the mind
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
5 Nov 10
I dont believe in destiny..I don't believe we'r destined to be with someone. in this bog world how are we going to meet exactly that person who's meant to be for us.it seems practically impossible. I don't have a boyfriend right now but as I said I don't believe in destiny
@craigy123456789 (1759)
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5 Nov 10
not sure on this. If destiny brought you togethe then it will bring you closer and quickly, but it's not. His priority isd his family, he won't get a job as his family come first, he does spend time with friends and chatting to them. Instead if he truly loved YOU then he would be on sites like this everyday helping to earn money so he could see you, and his friends would understand if they never got to see or hear from him as much as he will be working on the internet to help earn money to see you. BUT. i don't think he will do this, even if he says he will how can you trust him unless your on the same site and can see how active he is like we can on this site. Why not tell him if you mean so much to him and he loves you so much then he has to come on this site and others so you can see each-other much sooner. I wonder what excuse he will come up with next. And NO excuse should be good enough. You know he can register here, it doesn't cost and so if he doesn't then sorry but he is just a waste of time and is spinning you a line.
@calebknox (149)
• Philippines
5 Nov 10
I am terribly sorry for bursting your bubble but destiny isn't true, one proof of it is your free will, destiny is not biblical.I mean think about it, Soul Mate is created by a self-centered narcissistic culture as what a pastor once said, imagine..
''a real human being made just for you and you alone'' why?..
