do you have a happy love life?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
November 4, 2010 5:59pm CST
hi guys^^ 
do you have a happy love life? ^^ about me right now couldnt be worse. im caring for him and i feel is only me mostly the one caring in most part of the times. i just wish he came and said cat im sorry im a stupid. i love you and i will work and find a job while my nephews sleep, to go and see you =) then yes i would be too happy. im sure that i deserve that he said this. i know he wont say but i deserved see these words. or hear even better :) anyway if he doesnt maybe is bcs doesnt love me enough
then. i wonder that if he has time to go for drinks also could find a job to see me right? i know that he needs to relax bcs takes care of his nephews all day but couldnt he try to find a part time job to save to see me? i dont know sometimes i feel is me that im asking too much but deep inside of me i know im not asking much. i do so much for him that even i dont take care of nephews i want to work not just to
help my mother but also to see you. i work here pretty much all day to save to help my mum pay bills and to see him also =( im not asking too much that he finds a part time job or even works here while his nephews sleep right? i dont know sometimes i feel maybe is me that have some problem :( but i guess that in my heart i know that he could do more couldnt he?
anyway guys sorry im bothering you with my problems. i also want know about you guys. do you have a happy love life or just like me isnt that great? please share your stories so we can all advise each other =) is always good to see some sweet words of comfort^^ 
xoxo
Cat
do you have a happy love life? ^^ about me right now couldnt be worse. im caring for him and i feel is only me mostly the one caring in most part of the times. i just wish he came and said cat im sorry im a stupid. i love you and i will work and find a job while my nephews sleep, to go and see you =) then yes i would be too happy. im sure that i deserve that he said this. i know he wont say but i deserved see these words. or hear even better :) anyway if he doesnt maybe is bcs doesnt love me enough
then. i wonder that if he has time to go for drinks also could find a job to see me right? i know that he needs to relax bcs takes care of his nephews all day but couldnt he try to find a part time job to save to see me? i dont know sometimes i feel is me that im asking too much but deep inside of me i know im not asking much. i do so much for him that even i dont take care of nephews i want to work not just to
help my mother but also to see you. i work here pretty much all day to save to help my mum pay bills and to see him also =( im not asking too much that he finds a part time job or even works here while his nephews sleep right? i dont know sometimes i feel maybe is me that have some problem :( but i guess that in my heart i know that he could do more couldnt he?
anyway guys sorry im bothering you with my problems. i also want know about you guys. do you have a happy love life or just like me isnt that great? please share your stories so we can all advise each other =) is always good to see some sweet words of comfort^^
xoxo
Cat4 responses
@simonelee (2715)
• China
5 Nov 10
This issue will not be solve in one day. Have you ever talked to your partner how you feel? Talking/confronting each others feeling is so important in a relationship for you to understand each others thought. There are men who are born being "insensitive" and Passive that you need to exert more effort for them to see that they already need to fix some holes. If confronting don't work, i guess you have to teach him a lesson for him to realize his mistakes. Not only being irresponsible as a partner but also the mistakes what he has done to his life. Both of you will be hurt but sometimes being hurt will teach a person being a man.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
5 Nov 10
sure not simone you are right^^ i said how i feel and he knows that is his fault. he admit that. i know he is honest and sweet and that if we were near each other we could be happy. but he is busy all the time. he doesnt have time for me mostly. anyway these past two days he messaged me and i wish that for now he always at least everyday send me a message. thats all im asking him. also i shouldnt ask he should
just give that. but lets see.. i will just see what he will do that shows me he loves me really. i just dont want to be the only one making the efforts do you understand? i want that he also shows me that he doesnt want to lose me and that needs me in his life. we all need to feel that if we are in a relation. im not asking much. just that he shows his love.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
6 Nov 10
Hmmm... i do understand your situation. We're almost the same. What makes your partner busy? So, you're in a long distance relationship? Receiving a message from our beloved is enough for us to feel that we are still important to them.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
5 Nov 10
hi shibham^^ thats cute that you would be very caring for her^^ all guys should do the same you know. should care and worry with their gf and show love everyday.and sure you should do all to make her happy thats right. is good to see that you would care for give her much love and much happiness 
im sure that you can have that soon. you deserve it have a happy day^^
im sure that you can have that soon. you deserve it have a happy day^^ 
@Libyantiger (79)
• Canada
6 Nov 10
I don't have a love life, my love life is all dreams loooool but good to hear someone elses experiences
@craigy123456789 (1759)
•
5 Nov 10
i have no love life at all. But i am still happy, of course i would be much happier if i had the right woman in my life. Im sure that he finds time to do a lot of things, but in that time he could be earning money and isn't. I don't know why you put up with this. Maybe he is a waste of time, if he is it is a shame especially if you get the money to go and see him and see what he really is like.
