Do you Have to change to find love?

I suppose the change should only take place if the person causes harm and or negative traits to relationships. Outside of this I do not believe that for love we should make changes. We can compromise for the sake of love but not pretend to be someone we are not as this will definitely st some point affect the relationship. As a person cannot pretend forever and then revert to the person they truly are and maybe perhaps the partner will lose interest. Same as goes for we should not change try and change another person's ways while in the relationship either as this will later cause resentment and well that will lead to total destruction.

I don't think people should change for love, if you try to be someone you're not just for someone to love you. Then the person who you are trying to impress isn't in love with you but with the lie you made up. If the person really loves you, then that person would accept you for who you are.

I don't believe in the need to change, and neither does my husband. We have to compromise in a few ways to work together, but no one really had to "change. For example, he loves sci-fi, and while I don't mind it and am open to watching the sci-fi channel, I can not take the noises and flashing of the special effects. Compromise? He doesn't watch it turned all the way up!! :)

i guess sometimes yeah we have to change or improve ourselves to become a better person to find love...well i know i have my bad habits and traits and i knew i had to help myself by changing them, and that's what makes my partner love me even more. well just my opinion here..

I think NO!!you don't have to change your self just to find love..someone out there will love you as you are so don't have to change yourself :)

hi brother it's good to see ur question. ans:the answer is no......absolutely a big no. reason:if you r loving someone in this world for being what they are?then why shd you think of changing urself to get loved?true love means not asking u to change ur dress,attitude,lifestyle,hairstyle,priorities.nothing if its love then it doesn't ask for anykind of changes.and if you start changing for love sense that its nt love but an illusion of adjusting for the sake of love.why shd he/she adjusts if they love each other for wat they are in this world?once u start changing then it may go too far that you,urself will become unidentified inregard to ur personlaity coz u r nt doing those changes coz u need changes but getting changed bcoz of some other's will.true love loves as if you are yesterday,today,tmrw. hope that you understood wat iam tryin to tell