Y true love always hurts??

Firstly my friend a very warm welcome to you on myLot. So very sorry to hear of your broken heart. You are very young honey and well although life is so rough right now sometimes things are for the best. The only thing I could recommend is that you take some time to think about this entire situation. Firstly she has to be younger so the fact that her father is imposing any objections, well she may not find any choices at the moment. Allow a bit of time here, for her to figure out that she too perhaps cannot live without you. Unless you are aware of what the fathers objections are there really is not much you can do outside of making her father angrier. There is no instance fix here, outside of time.. I hope she comes to her senses dear and calls you soon so that things can get back to normal if not I am afraid you will have to try really hard to keep yourself busy and allow time to take its course.

When I read this, it is as if you are my Ex. We loved each other for two years too. But I didn't leave him. He left me. But his reason is my father. I hope he feels the same way as you are feeling. I know he can't find a girl like me. Hope you can recover from this problem. We are on the same boat! Just keep on being busy and time will heal those wounds. It's hard to forget about it, I know. I accepted that maybe we are not meant to be. But hey, it's not the end of the world. Life must go on even without her. You were happy before you met her, then why not being happy after? It's hard but just try.

I'm sorry for your experience. It seems the more we love someone, the more it hurts when the relationship is over. don't give up on love. It is sure to come your way again.

Not hurt actually, but sacrifice. True love demands sacrifice. The truest love it is, the more sacrifice needed. True love is all about sacrifice. If you will to sacrifice what you have to stand your love, so can be called then as true lover. Love without sacrifice is nonsense. It's like street talking where people may talk anything without regarding the possible consequence. But love is different matter. We can't just talk about love and forget what we should do to love itself. It is my opinion.

Hi, If she is so good to you why did you broke up.That is the first issue to be resolved. If you wan to forget her better do it and keep yourself engaged busy.If possible try to move to a different city or town where the streets and coffee shops doenst bring her memories to you. Try to concentrate on something constructive.Mingle with friends who doesn't know about your love or your girl. Above all you need to have a strong commitment to get out her out of your mind. Good Luck.

Well the first thing to do is to get to the source of the problem. Try talking to her father and find out what he doesn't like about you and his daughter's relationship. Also, try and surround yourself with your friends and family and other comforts so hopefully the pain will ease a little.

Hi manjurocks, welcome to mylot. Actually i thought you are a girl. I think you should convince your girl friend's father and get marry. That is only the solution. I pray god to fulfill your dreams. Some times this kind of things are not only break our hearts but also break even for our life. So deal with it carefully and be happy. Have a good future ahead. God bless you.

hello manjurocks! welcome to mylot! I'm sorry to hear about your broken heart. I know that it's not an easy situation and only you and time can heal your wounds. The mind, in itself, can make a heaven of hell, and a hell of heaven. Therefore, if you keep saying that you can't live without her, the more that you will feel and believe that you can't indeed live without her. But if you will start telling yourself that you can forget her and start anew with your life, you will find that you'll be doing it indeed. It's a matter of whether you want to forget her or you want to keep on hoping for her to come back. If your girl truly loves you, she will realize that in time and who knows she will come back to you in no time. However, if she is the obedient-daughter kind who is willing to sacrifice her own happiness in order to make her father happy, it would be best if you will learn to forget her. I know it's not an easy task especially since you believe that she's the best girl for you. But if she chose her father over you, she can't be best for you, right? Healing takes time, especially if it concerns the heart and more so, if you are not willing to let go of the past and the hurt. Love does not hurt basically, it is the people we choose to love that hurt us. You must not lose hope therefore, soon, you will meet and find new girls who can love you back they way you want to be loved, if you will just let yourself. It's up to you. Meanwhile, just keep on living your life, have fun, enjoy to lessen the pain. Let time heal your hurt. Soon, you'll find yourself in love again, who knows? Just have faith. See you around here in myLot! happy mylotting!

Because love is life if you love truly with the bottom of your heart then you hearted if you fool your patner then you enjoyed as well you want :D