who would you choose? the one you love or the who loves you? why?
By chuyins123
@chuyins123 (2112)
Philippines
November 6, 2010 1:05am CST
I have often heard this question on pageants, and on some celebrities. How about you? What do you think you would choose between the two? (You can answer this even if you are not a celebrity and this is not a pageant search obviously. :)
I would appreciate any answer to this question. =)
God bless everyone!
2 responses
@marcmm (1804)
• Malaysia
6 Nov 10
That is really a hard question. If possible I would want someone that I love and she would love me back But if I have to choose between those two, I found it really hard. Both choice have a disadvantage.
The One That I Love,
If she doesn't love me, I would worry she would make something bad at my back. I wouldn't rule out she will have an affair outside. Why wouldn't she since she didn't love me and she love someone else. So that is the major disadvantage.
The One That Love Me,
It sure hard to live with someone you didn't love. Why would I? And because of that, I might engage myself in outside affair with someone else.
@chuyins123 (2112)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
It is hard to answer but possible to answer. Yes, as i have always said to my friends, I just need someone who loves me. And I would learn to love her back no matter what. I am a man who wants security and I want to be secured when I invest in emotions.
But I could not also discount the fact that like marcmm I would want someone whom i love but would also reciprocate the love that I offer her. It's the best case scenario. Yet, with my question, above was my answer.
@Necroborg (65)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
Since I am a guy I would choose the one I love, because it is difficult to love someone you do not love. I have already been in a relation ship where I didn't really have true feelings for the girl. the relationship didn't go very well.
@chuyins123 (2112)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
Well, you are really a risk taker with your choice. In contrast with you bro, I want someone who loves me. I would just learn to love her back in every way I can. And I am a man who wants to find security when I invest in emotions and feelings...
