Do you always think negative about something?

You want me to be honest with you on this? I think it's totally silly brother. This kinda behavior comes from anticipation on possible loss. It's close to phobia where you are overpowered with irrational fear. You have, deep in your mind, a feeling that you need her, and that you can't do anything without her. These are all baseless assumptions. A man survives even when he looses his beloved parents. Are you gonna mourn right from your childhood thinking all about that? You're whole life will be doomed if you go on anticipating about problems that hasn't yet occurred. I think, you should calm down and take a more positive attitude towards everything. You shouldn't worry too much about things that are of no concern of yours. You just stay honest and humble and let all other decide how to treat a person like you. You should be more concerned about your own life, your own purpose and believe me, the rest can be managed, without much stress.

I think that way all the time. When my Ex and I were still together, Every time he doesn't reply to my text or he's not online, I can't help think of the bad things that I think he is doing. I think that he has a date with someone else or he is busy texting other girls. I know he's not doing that. My paranoid behavior drove him away. That was one reason he ended the relationship. Or sometimes when he is offline on FB chatbox, I think that he's doing it o purpose but actually the system is broken.

I honestly try not to think negatively about anything. Sometimes, I might worry about how something might turn out, but I'm still not going to think negatively about it. It's really not something that I like doing.

I am a kind of person that who thinks positively about things. I always hope that there is still something good to look forward to. So to speak, I do not worry too much about the future and think of it in a negative aspect. But instead i plan things in a hope of making it better for me.

No, I never think negative about any thing I always see positive in every aspect of my life, and I dont think negative, in this case, as your gf became offline any thing could happen, but why to be negative on this, the best thing is to call and ask her. Never think negative, if any negative point come to your mind, then just think on other side or keep your self busy in some other activity, these things happen when you are in deep depression for a long time, try to go out with your friend, try to enjoy at your work place with your colleagues and try to work hard so you get good remarks from your superior, try to come out of imaginations and concentrate on your work, this way you can get rid of negatives in your mind....:)

I don't always think negative about something, except for when sometimes when there is an obvious reason for me to think negative about something. I remember when I was 15 years old and I have a gf, she didn't text me for 3 days which is something not usual because we often text each other so because of that I have the reason to think about negative about it, I can't really elaborate on what happened but it was ended up in broken relationship. In your case I don't see a reason for you to think negative, it happens to everyone of us.

I am a recovering pessimistI would always look on the dark side . I would always wait for something bad to happen. It is natural to worry alittle when you are cut off from your love. But to think she is pi$$ed off is a little too pessimistic.Try not to worry. I assume she will tell you when she is pi$$ed off.

not really, i would say others think more negative then me.

hello bro, Oho,thinking negative huh? Well,when it concerns our beloved ones,we really feel bad when things happened like that. Don't blew up your mind dear bro,it won't help you either Enjoy your weekend and try to check your B tomorrow. I understand your feeling,i feels that way too when suddenly the lines i am reading from my special someone sounds @#&*%@#$%...but then again..negative thinking won't help. Have a great Sunday dear brother

Hello Prime. I am a negative person, so yes i always think negative about most things until i am proven wrong. That normally doesn't happen, so i am mostly right. TATA.

Oh,i know it is a bad habit about thinking negative about something.We should have some positive attitude about anything which we meet in daily life.It is a healthy thought of everyone.

well, just think better mate. maybe your gf is have some broplem with the conection. try to contact to her mate. you will find out why!!

bro his is coze what we r tought from the very beggning for eg no parant tells there child what to do they r always after the child for what not to do and gradually this feeling comes in us that we think negative or rebellious about every thing that happens to us the solution is to b confident and live life with ur rules make some it will help u a lot for eg -not caring what other think this also helps a lot but its mine u make urs whatever u feel like

I hope for the best,but prepare for the worst. I never cheer for anything before I have it done.I think of what if I fail,what should I do?

Hey praimeaque, I am just like you.I always thin negative about somethings,and this has grown to such an extent I have become a negative character, just thinking of the worst. Please stop thinking negatively and always think positive thoughts. This is good for your health, and will always keep you young, both mentally and physically. That is the power of positive thinking.

hi prime my suggestions to you is to trust your GF as she probably had a good reason to go offline that had nothing at all to do with you,could even be as simple as she had to go, you know urgent call to the rest room. Now she was not going to say I gotta go but that might have been all it was. Do not be so negative.You are being silly P rime. ask the next time why she left suddenly. I w as always one for thinking the worst but my hubby teased me out of that by making jokes about me, He called it Lions, and tigers and bears, oh my when I would worry myself silly over something that never happened. Our son was late home from school so Immediately though oh my maybe he was struck by a car but of course he was not. I do not think your gf is angry with you at all and she just had to leave suddenly and probably forgot to tell you. Give her a chance prime.

Hi, U seem to be my kind of a guy......hmmm...negative thinking is quite normal in human beings..and u gave an example of ur girl friend,yes negative thinking comes wen we care too much about that person's presence in our life..its clear that she is very very important to u...that's y u got worried wen she got offline...even am experiencing the same thing...try to be positive always..take care bro...:)