Being In LOVE is a RISK. You could easily be INVOLVED.
By chuyins123
@chuyins123 (2112)
Philippines
November 6, 2010 5:39am CST
I have often heard a lot of people complain about relationship, specially about love. What is LOVE? Well, we could hardly justify our complaint about it, why? because it's a risk, and we sometimes don't realize that we are on it. Loving involves emotion that we can not even notice at times, but we do have the capacity to control it.
If we fell in love we could possibly feel a euphoric feeling like we're in cloud nine, or falling in love could also mean heartaches. That's why it's a risk because we don't know what we could get. It could possibly bring us happiness or it could even bring you pain.
This is the risk that we could even get involved without actually being totally aware of it. Sometimes, we just notice we are risking if we already feel the pain, or we already feel the happiness that it brings. And sometimes, we allow ourselves to be involved in the risk without preparing much on the consequences.
Still, bottom line, LOVE is a risk. And whatever the consequence of being in love. Just enjoy the moments when you feel the sparks, the sweet moments and the euphoric state of being in LOVE.
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5 responses
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
6 Nov 10
Hi dear,
We can enjoy love and life if we prepare for it. Love is a special feeling towards an attraction to someone with whom we like. The same feeling may not happens to all and that feeling itself says that with whom we love. Mostly we will get attracted some features – can be of anything. Once we confirm that we like her/him, we can easily identify the speciality. We wish for the person with whom we like.
You are talking about risk. If we identified that we love that person, and you really love them, here is the real way we need to work. We need to intimate them at the earliest and find they match with you. If he or she likes, we need to identify other aspects also. Just love and like may lead to inappropriate consequences. Now-a-days, many people would consider so many aspects before they get into a love affair. Basically, education & employment, finance, beauty, family background, religion and cast, culture and social dignity, geographical differences etc. Even though love has nothing to do with it. The wise people always go for it and then if not fit majority of such criteria, they will not move forward.
To save love and risk, these factors consider initially will be a safer side and if find ok, approach the opposite person for a love affair. And finds matching, then it is your responsibility to make it grow it in such a way that they should attract you. Find out other persons interests, likes and dislikes and move accordingly. Once you can able to conquer the other persons mind, then you can win and the love will not be a failure or a risk.
Like other matters in our life, we need planning and all prepared pre concepts on love life to make it fruitful and desired result from a matured love affair. These simple things if we could manage, if risk can be diverted to a healthy married life too.
Thank-s
Thank-s
@chuyins123 (2112)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
thank you for the response.
Yes, maybe it's how things should work out. It's how things should be done, with due and proper preparation. As i have often heard, "failing to prepare is preparing to fail."
While it is true that we have to prepare for such romantic love affair, there are still factors that is beyond our control, thus i said it is still a risk. But yes, you still have a point, that if we could at least prepare our self for any consequence it would not be as painful as it would if we fail to prepare.
Thanks again! :D
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
9 Nov 10
Hi dear,
Thanks for your response.
One thing is sure that even though being involved in love affiar is a risk, having an affair is a pleasure and moment of happiness. If we properly managed the affair, I think we can make it a life time happiness.
Best regards,
Thank-s
@hanni711 (243)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
Love is not just a feeling or emotions. It is a special gift from GOD for HE is the true source of love. I dont't think entering into a relationship or being in love is a risk if we are mature enough and have the right knowledge about it. There is no such perfect relationship but if we put GOD at the center of it i believe we'll be able to overcome every problems and trials that will come our way.
@chuyins123 (2112)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
it's a risk in the sense that you don't control the behavior of your partner and there are times that we'll be disappointed with our partner's action, still i chose to love. Because someone has loved me unconditionally, and that is God. And it would be better to be in a relationship deeply rooted in the grace and blessing of God. As you said, let's just make Him the center of our relationship. :) thank you!
@strawberrychocodahi (4818)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
Risk in terms that you might get hurt, but if we are just so afraid to get hurt, then when are we going to love and truly give love? In the true essence of love, we humans can never fathom the love of Christ in us that He gave His life to us and that is complete sacrifice and love.
We as humans are limited no matter how hard we do. But if we pattern the love which God has told us in His Word, then I am sure that we really know the definition of what true love means, and for me I wanted to share the most favorite love verse of all which is found in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 which says
" Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away."
@chuyins123 (2112)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
exactly! I couldn't help but agree. While it is true that love is a risk. We can always love because someone so Great and Amazing Has already loved us before we love each other. So great is His love that He gave it all up for us to be saved. Thank you for such a response! God bless!
@chuyins123 (2112)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
i don't blame involvement mate, i just said it's a risk and we could be involve in it without being fully aware of the consequences should it happen to fail. :D
