B4 Marriage we Dream and after marriage they are Just Dream...

Marriage is perhaps the biggest ambition killer I know-when you put you two heads together-you find internal oppositions to dreams that make the dream a non starter from the word go-so to keep peace in the house, you withdraw from your dreams and remain permanently on square zero. You are very right here.

Firstly, I think ur tital is very classical. Many people consider that marriage is the tomb for love, but I don't think so. Before marriage we dream because we love each other and hope life after marriage will be satisfied in any aspects, but we forget one thing, that is life is real not envision, dream contains only good things but reality contains not only goods things but also the bad ones. That's why we found so many things not satisfied our needs. So be real just b4 marriage, make the dream completely, and u will not be disappointed after marriage.

Okay, marriage is not perfect, and when you enter into marriage, you need to be realistic. If you cannot be realistic when it comes to marriage, then guess what, that marriage is doomed to fail. Marriage is a partnership, it is compromise, and it is about making choices. If you and your partner cannot agree on certain things, that is going to be are very bad marriage. You both have to be willing and open to change things, and you have to see that things are never going to go the way you planned.

I hope that is not the case. I think the trick is to be fulfilled as a person then your life is not wrapped up in whether you get married or not. Then you won't be disappointed if you end up with the person that doesn't want the white picket fence and all his and hers stuff. Getting married means choosing your family. It doesn't mean you get butterflies in your stomach everyday for the rest of your life. It's work and it is guaranteed to fail if you don't view it that way.

Why can't we continue our dreams while married. See too many couples get together and forget their objection which was to be happy. Why can't we get married and or get together and still have dreams and ambition. Certainly too many are ending their dreams soon after marriage, I still say why though, wouldn't dreams be easier to accomplish with to people master minds.

Marriage does not mean the end of road for couples. There are dreams whereby couples can complete and fulfill it together. Plan something which is for the long term, and both are involved in it. It's good to have personal dreams, while it doesn't hurt when the person u loved most can be there to help and also share your happiness when it's being fulfilled.

I don't think thats true. It really depends on your partner, I guess. I stopped schooling when my husband and I had a baby. I wanted so much to finish college and my husband knows that. Come June, I'll be enrolling via a distance learning program. So I guess its not about being married. Its about holding on to your dream and working hard to fulfill it.

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